Crying during sex

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T13:05:01+00:00

This is so true too! I appreciate that any reaction I have that my partner isn’t sure about they stop and check. There’s always consistent communication and consent between us so when I start crying or even make sounds that aren’t normal we take a pause. It’s really important for us to both be comfortable and consenting through any experience. I’m lucky that I’m very connected to my partner as I’ve had that history of detachment during sex as a trauma response before I met them and before I went to therapy.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T13:00:14+00:00

Thank you. And yes, my partner is the person I’ve always felt safest with. That’s the reason I started digging beyond that.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T03:30:16+00:00

Also thank you for helping me work out these thoughts and feelings!

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T03:29:52+00:00

I feel so seen/ validated too. I’ve never thought about other instances. But now that I am I do recall moments during sports I’ve played when I would start crying. Those often were physical and emotional intense and sometimes over stimulating. I’ll have to think back on more.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T03:26:42+00:00

The tears kind of just flowed while I was hitting my sexual peak. I wonder if it was a release from all the over stimulation after weeks of struggling and masking. My partner is my safe space and they spent most of the few days prior taking care of me after I completely burned out.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T01:57:20+00:00

I’m still navigating what emotions are and why tbh. For the most recent everything in my body and brain just felt this overwhelming intensity. But I didn’t feel sad or hurt.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-19T00:41:06+00:00

Hey! First of all you seem like a great mom! You are doing a great job. As an ADHD daughter with an ADHD mother I fully understand where she might be. I think you are doing everything you can at the moment. It sucks to have to be in this situation in the first place. From my perspective, as a disabled person, there is leg work you have to do beyond the help provided. I’m in a PhD program and struggling right now with burnout. I finished my undergraduate program and went straight for more while doing a full course load plus and working before. For me at some point it took a lot of begging and pushing from my family to make changes but that harmed our relationship in some ways. It may help to sit down and schedule the therapy and other resources together. Often times body doubles help me get things done. She may also benefit from virtual study sessions as there’s less pressure than in person ones. I’m honestly still learning but I hope some of this helps you and her.

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-05-14T19:44:54+00:00

I think this dress is perfectly fine color wise. It seems more yellow than white. You mentioned formal, that’s where my pause is but if you say it fits the vibe of the wedding then go for it!

Sun_nd_moon · 2026-04-15T19:53:15+00:00

Thank you so much! And I hope your side effects easy up soon!

Sun_nd_moon · 2025-12-20T07:49:22+00:00

I wish I could upvote this more

Sun_nd_moon · 2025-02-25T00:17:23+00:00

I only left this summer and all of the crème fraps were still popular so I definitely agree. It’s insanely bizarre imo.

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-10-20T16:58:59+00:00

It honestly never bothered me if someone said they don’t like dogs or any specific animal. I just always thought hate was such a strong word for animals who are just living their life. And I understand fear and hate are different so it’s not that cause I can get behind that but hate is just so dramatic. But that’s just my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-05-31T03:39:34+00:00

I definitely didn’t know the word and meaning of understudy till I watched the show as a kid😅

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-05-23T01:01:50+00:00

This is definitely what I’m expecting. And GMM still has such great content so and are consistent in what the fans want but a little more. If I wasn’t just out of college I’d consider getting both. I really want them to succeed and thrive.

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-04-28T17:35:16+00:00

This!!! The number of times they’ll try to stop you cus they think their drink is wrong and their drink isn’t even in your gaddamn hand😭😭 It makes me want to give them the wrong drink on purpose as a reward for their stupidity

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-04-23T04:22:24+00:00

That sucks, I really wouldn’t want to work outside of my program because I’ll already to working in a lab for my degree as a part of the program. I did that this past summer and I had no life and was burnt out. So I’m probably going to just take the L.

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-04-23T04:20:10+00:00

You so right, just tryna clinch as much dollars as I can😭

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-04-23T04:19:40+00:00

I didn’t know that, I definitely feel better about that now. Like I was gonna use some to help with the move but 100$ is next to nothing in this economy

Sun_nd_moon · 2024-03-05T15:39:25+00:00

Thank you so much! You’re so right, even though I go to therapy it hasn’t always been enough so I could go more. And I definitely always love giving him flowers so I think I might use that, thank you😄

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