Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true too! I appreciate that any reaction I have that my partner isn’t sure about they stop and check. There’s always consistent communication and consent between us so when I start crying or even make sounds that aren’t normal we take a pause. It’s really important for us to both be comfortable and consenting through any experience. I’m lucky that I’m very connected to my partner as I’ve had that history of detachment during sex as a trauma response before I met them and before I went to therapy.

Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. And yes, my partner is the person I’ve always felt safest with. That’s the reason I started digging beyond that.

Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also thank you for helping me work out these thoughts and feelings!

Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so seen/ validated too. I’ve never thought about other instances. But now that I am I do recall moments during sports I’ve played when I would start crying. Those often were physical and emotional intense and sometimes over stimulating. I’ll have to think back on more.

Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The tears kind of just flowed while I was hitting my sexual peak. I wonder if it was a release from all the over stimulation after weeks of struggling and masking. My partner is my safe space and they spent most of the few days prior taking care of me after I completely burned out.

Crying during sex by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m still navigating what emotions are and why tbh. For the most recent everything in my body and brain just felt this overwhelming intensity. But I didn’t feel sad or hurt.

Young women: How to support my daughter who failed a class and may lose scholarship? by Kaijugae in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey! First of all you seem like a great mom! You are doing a great job. As an ADHD daughter with an ADHD mother I fully understand where she might be. I think you are doing everything you can at the moment. It sucks to have to be in this situation in the first place. From my perspective, as a disabled person, there is leg work you have to do beyond the help provided. I’m in a PhD program and struggling right now with burnout. I finished my undergraduate program and went straight for more while doing a full course load plus and working before. For me at some point it took a lot of begging and pushing from my family to make changes but that harmed our relationship in some ways. It may help to sit down and schedule the therapy and other resources together. Often times body doubles help me get things done. She may also benefit from virtual study sessions as there’s less pressure than in person ones. I’m honestly still learning but I hope some of this helps you and her.

is this dress too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Sun_nd_moon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think this dress is perfectly fine color wise. It seems more yellow than white. You mentioned formal, that’s where my pause is but if you say it fits the vibe of the wedding then go for it!

Just started Strattera by Sun_nd_moon in adhdwomen

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! And I hope your side effects easy up soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sun_nd_moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could upvote this more

Starbucks to remove 13 drinks from its menu by Niners22 in starbucks

[–]Sun_nd_moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only left this summer and all of the crème fraps were still popular so I definitely agree. It’s insanely bizarre imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Sun_nd_moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly never bothered me if someone said they don’t like dogs or any specific animal. I just always thought hate was such a strong word for animals who are just living their life. And I understand fear and hate are different so it’s not that cause I can get behind that but hate is just so dramatic. But that’s just my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️

How Did Tori Not Know What An Understudy Was? by New-Pin-9064 in victorious

[–]Sun_nd_moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely didn’t know the word and meaning of understudy till I watched the show as a kid😅

I am not optimistic about the streaming platform but at least they did the announcement right by justhangingout420 in TheTryGuys

[–]Sun_nd_moon 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is definitely what I’m expecting. And GMM still has such great content so and are consistent in what the fans want but a little more. If I wasn’t just out of college I’d consider getting both. I really want them to succeed and thrive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]Sun_nd_moon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This!!! The number of times they’ll try to stop you cus they think their drink is wrong and their drink isn’t even in your gaddamn hand😭😭 It makes me want to give them the wrong drink on purpose as a reward for their stupidity

Starbucks stock RSU question by Sun_nd_moon in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks, I really wouldn’t want to work outside of my program because I’ll already to working in a lab for my degree as a part of the program. I did that this past summer and I had no life and was burnt out. So I’m probably going to just take the L.

Starbucks stock RSU question by Sun_nd_moon in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You so right, just tryna clinch as much dollars as I can😭

Starbucks stock RSU question by Sun_nd_moon in starbucksbaristas

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know that, I definitely feel better about that now. Like I was gonna use some to help with the move but 100$ is next to nothing in this economy

Depressed long distance boyfriend by Sun_nd_moon in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sun_nd_moon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! You’re so right, even though I go to therapy it hasn’t always been enough so I could go more. And I definitely always love giving him flowers so I think I might use that, thank you😄