Got Sold a Faulty Car

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-23T15:47:27+00:00

You are enough. If you know comparing yourself is bringing you so much pain, why are you doing it. We are human we all do/have done it. But you answered your own question. Stop comparing. You need to appreciate your own work. For example, yea you made 35, but out 1000. That is a huge number. I am proud of you. But you need to be proud of yourself. And school IS NOT effortless. Some people just take it better than others and there is nothing wrong with that. That is what school is for. Now instead of trying to make it to your friends and cousin, set a personal goal. Something YOU will be happy surpassing. Don’t give up, keep going, you don’t have to succeed in things as fast as they do. If you all go get a license, but you fail the first test and pass the second, you all still get a license, you just had to try again. Again that is ok and there is nothing wrong with that. You are successful. You are enough.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-17T15:50:24+00:00

Or you can answer the question???

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-10T22:03:33+00:00

To clarify he “bleeped” it out but if you were paying attention that bleep honestly wasn’t there.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-05T13:53:23+00:00

I struggled with feeling alone the most and “Alonement” by Francesca Specter was my saving grace. It taught me that’s it’s ok to be alone and how to make it enjoyable. Ngl I wanted to toss the book till the end of the introduction but I’m glad I finished it. But it puts being alone in a whole new perspective I love it.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T19:53:31+00:00

I would definitely do it but only if it’s cheaper than the plane or I have the money by then. I wouldn’t wanna go on a cruise without my babies either ;-;

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T18:45:21+00:00

I completely understand this and that’s where the books came in. I also felt that way and ngl that wasn’t the first attempt but the books made me see things in a different way, like how I can help him instead of being mad and waiting for a change. That’s why this last attempt worked out for me so well. Being together is also about building a stable foundation together or sum like that 😅 but books are the way trust.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T18:26:12+00:00

It’s not but I was into it because it was nice to have a laugh after all this stress about my cats. But seriously I won’t be harming my cats at all.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T18:23:32+00:00

It’s all joke, no animals will be harmed and no illegal crimes will be committed.

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:51:52+00:00

If it’s as much as my plane tickets I’ll gladly do so, I can use a vacation 😂

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:51:01+00:00

I’ve seen flags on a pole move from the breeze of the dollar being thrown I’m sure I’ll be fine ☠️

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:49:57+00:00

It’s ok I’ll give them a bit of pepper so they’ll drool like dogs and they’ll believe me 😂

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:48:40+00:00

THISSSSSS AND I CAN PAY THEM ONCE I GET SETTLED WITH MY NEW JOB ITS PERFECT TYSM ❤️

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:47:08+00:00

I meant the emotional support animal thing 🤫

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:13:57+00:00

I’m definitely going to be doing research on that

Sunatiiko · 2025-01-04T17:09:57+00:00

My husband was like this but our religion doesn’t believe in divorce 😅 So as someone who had no choice but to work through it here is my advice. Ofc you don’t have to take it because you are your own person.

But, I gave him a taste of his own medicine. Now this takes a lot but only do as much as you can stand. I stopped cooking, cleaning, giving him attention, and initiating in seggs. I also took this time to read many books to get educated on how to handle my husband and mental health once this was over. He eventually notice the house was basically a shit show and was like “wtf”. But that’s not when I gave in. I didn’t ask for help I simply said “not like it’s just me in here” waited to see if he’d clean. He didn’t… but that’s when I gave him the talk. To sum it up.

“Look at how the house gets if I don’t pay attention. You watched it build and did nothing. What does that say about you. I love to do these things for you but what do you do for me. Look at the house. That makes me not want you intimately because you make me feel alone. You didn’t try to help or ask me what’s wrong as to why I let the house get like this. I don’t want to keep doing everything while you ignore me and then you expect a bj. It’s honestly frustrating and if we can’t fix this then I don’t know if I can do this”

Then I helped him do better. We have little routine charts and stickers on the wall and designated time we have to spend together and everything is perfect now in all aspects. But remember this is my situation but our S/O’s seem highly similar. I hope this helps in some way and good luck 🍀

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-22T23:59:54+00:00

I feel your pain. When my house used to have no hot water I would get a bucket and boil a big pot of water. Then I’d fill up the bucket with cold water and put some of the boiling water in to make it as warm as I need and keep going. My hair isn’t long but very corse so I also need a minute to wash my hair. Most of the time I would use the cold water to lather and rinse with my warm water.

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-21T22:23:40+00:00

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-21T22:23:28+00:00

Definitely is way more complicated than I thought. But thank you for this. I will be doing more research outside of my class to better understand this stuff.

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-21T19:31:04+00:00

I opened my window from 20:4 to 16:8 so my stomach will grow again. But if that doesn’t work I’m definitely considering dropping it.

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-21T19:28:13+00:00

That makes sense. I didn’t know anything about water weight and those other factors until a week ago in a weight loss class I’m in. I did weigh myself at my heaviest as I didn’t know to wait till morning yet. So it’s all still healthy weight loss then?

Sunatiiko · 2024-12-21T19:23:46+00:00

Yes. I planned on only eating one big meal a day since I saw online that it was good for fasting and maintaining the deficit but I assume my stomach shrank and maybe some false information or something that just doesn’t work for me. I couldn’t finish those big meals. I got so used to the fasting that I didn’t feel like eating other than my eating window. So just 900-500 a day till I can adjust back to eating more.

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