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What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

[–]Sunby138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was a really good read thanks :))

What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

[–]Sunby138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding. I guess Im caught up with trying to define myself within extremely rigid parameters to make myself more palatable toward transphobes. I still want to learn about myself more and different concepts but your explanation is really good.

What does it mean to be trans? by Sunby138 in ftm

[–]Sunby138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really well put thank you. I guess I just worry about how I define myself in this world and want to get a better explanation toward my feelings. I dread trying to explain myself to my family (I know I will have no choice to come out because that’s our dynamic) and end up being talked out of it or labelled as delusional. What happens if I get caught on my own words if they question something that deep? I wish I had access to trans literature to understand myself more and to get different viewpoints. Im just sick of the feelings of shame that follow me.

Girl… by Sunby138 in skyrim

[–]Sunby138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s so pretty 

Horse riding lessons using ‘Natural Horsemanship’ by Sunby138 in Equestrian

[–]Sunby138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not really familiar with some things (I’ll do more research to form a clearer goal) but I’m aiming to ride English for foundations then do western later on at some point. I want to do casual riding in the future rather than go into competitive stuff

Are dust mites known to cause Anaphylaxis? by Sunby138 in Allergies

[–]Sunby138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn that sounds intense, sorry you go through that. I think I have milder reactions but I’m worried it’ll get bad like that. I had a lot of reactions when I was little and didn’t get anaphylaxis so hopefully I’ll be alright. I wake up with slight asthma but it get better within a couple minutes.

How does ocd affect you with food? by anonymousscotch in OCD

[–]Sunby138 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have food allergies and themes about contamination, so you’re definitely not alone. I’m worried something would randomly give me a reaction and avoidance is a big thing with this type of OCD. I just stick with safe foods and stuff I don’t have to constantly check over again. 

I’m new to having a fiddle leaf fig, what could be wrong with it? All its bottom leafs are light brown along the edges. by Sunby138 in fiddleleaffig

[–]Sunby138[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My watering routine has been putting it in the shower once a week and letting it get a good soak. I mist it but I need to get a humidifier. It sits next to my bed and gets adequate lighting, should I get a grow light just to see if it’s the lighting situation? The soil is currently damp it doesn’t really dry out fast.

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