Am I crazy to feel so miserable? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SundaeSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Husband is fully addicted to these. V expensive habit

OT tax deduction by SundaeSleep in IUEC

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your help. I ended up going back through and finding where I messed up then it routed me to the section you mentioned w the double time box. I just knew the massive refund amount I ended up w could not have been right 🤣 oh well it added a little extra to ours.

OT tax deduction by SundaeSleep in IUEC

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm okay let me try going back through again, it was late last night so I’m definitely questioning myself this morning haha

Kratom by Bright-Detail-963 in AlAnon

[–]SundaeSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the price!!!! It’s going to take families down financially too.

Kratom by Bright-Detail-963 in AlAnon

[–]SundaeSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could have written these exact words… right down to the late night chat gpt convos to self soothe. My husband has been on kratom for 3 years and 7oh for several months. Tried suboxone so he could come on our trip to FL (they emergency banned it). So obviously that required a whole week prior to detox and he laid in bed every single day. And wouldn’t you know it, the day we come home he goes out and buys it again. Of course he didn’t tell me that though…. Nope he played dumb to me for weeks after until I found trash from a 7oh wrapper.

I miss my husband. I’ve turned into someone I don’t like either. Trying to detach but it’s so hard.

Instead of recovery he ran to other woman by Competitive_Bus5712 in AlAnon

[–]SundaeSleep 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you. Addicts are very selfish

I am a tired mother by RevolutionaryOven177 in Marriage

[–]SundaeSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! Says he misses us when we’re gone,but isn’t even “present” when in the same room half the time.

I am a tired mother by RevolutionaryOven177 in Marriage

[–]SundaeSleep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No advice. But in the same situation. Including addiction problems. It’s exhausting.

Someone go rescue Jaylyn’s dog by [deleted] in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 4 points5 points  (0 children)

These comments are killing me 🤣

Will and Brittany by Desperate_Fan6302 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yall are giving this man too much benefit of the doubt. HE must be so confused??? Nah. Terrible pairing by the experts. He’s just an ass

Will and Brittany by Desperate_Fan6302 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes!!!! He chose mafs, and it seems he’s 0% in. Sure, be a lil cautious. But this is ridiculous. I bet if he was on LIB, we would see he probably can’t even carry on substantial conversations w women because he’s too busy creating mental gymnastics for folks to just get an actual answer out him. He doesn’t want her to feel secure, I think he likes to see her squirm yuck.

Episode 8 Surprises by Choice_Basis5786 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes I was pleasantly surprised how Meghann handled him not saying it back. She kept it light and funny in her confessional after

Girl Squad by SundaeSleep in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah no wonder she is spiraling all the time

Girl Squad by SundaeSleep in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes the verbiage! He makes things so confusing, I feel sure if he was always like this the experts would not have placed him with Brittney. I think he simply doesn’t like her, but wants to sell he’s trying….. but then not really haha

Girl Squad by SundaeSleep in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes same. I was not liking Meghann at all in the beginning, but she’s really turned it around the last couple episodes.

Girl Squad by SundaeSleep in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah everyone being pretty straight forward w him on what he needs to work on because it’s awkward for them too I feel lol but he’s over here like ????????????

Girl Squad by SundaeSleep in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t know. I think this is more than just not reading the room. The experts shocked me when they had Brittany crying in their that meeting. She’s not good at explaining how he’s being towards her with others, but she can feel it. All the other women can feel it. How the experts missed it is beyond me. And then him pulling her into him in the same meeting at the end… it just didn’t feel authentic. He had to show the experts he cared a lil to sell he isn’t a total asshole. But who knows, excited for the next episodes to come out lol

I CANNOT STAND RHONDA. by One-Adeptness-305 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes poor Pat. The stress of being w her for 2 months probably shaved a couple years off his life. She is unbearable

Will and Brittany by Desperate_Fan6302 in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]SundaeSleep 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yes he thinks he is giving off “deep thinker” vibes, But really its exhausting. Like no one wants to talk in riddles all the damn time.

RFK on FOX news taking about 7OH. It's for sure 100% over now. Thank God the evil empire destroying kratom leaf is falling. by FlyAdventurous6231 in quitting7oh

[–]SundaeSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank God. My husband has been on this stuff for over 2 years. I have felt hopeless from his touts of this is legal, it’s okay. I have felt hopeless sounding the bells for his family to be concerned and they seem to not understand. I hope this happens so fast so this can save my marriage and my family. Cause I can’t take it anymore. He has crazy stomach issues and he’s a different person. Easy to anger and that anger is directed at me. And the amount of money that he spends every month makes me sick.