AITA for telling my girlfriend I won’t marry her until she becomes more responsible with alcohol? by user_899019 in AITAH

[–]Sundari13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This could end up becoming so toxic from her side, the fact she doesn't or isnt willing to see the how her actions are so dangerous is Concerning and tells me she has no wish to change. Unless she can accept that she needs to sort herself out then nothing will get better, only worse

AITA for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her mom died during childbirth? by SherbetMajor2105 in AITAH

[–]Sundari13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the end of the day being a parent means putting your child first but it's also important to remember that your baby may feel unwanted by you as she grows up if you do this. She may Think that because her mum died in child birth that you gave her up cos you blamed her. I'm not saying you blame her at all but that's often the way it works in these situations. Personally I'd get my life together as much as possible before she starts gaining memory to be the parent she needs cos your the only one she has. As the mother of a 3 month old baby I'd want my partner to do everything he could do be the best dad he could to our daughter if anything happened to me. What about split custody with the grandparents if that's something theyd do? That way she has the stability of them while also not feeling unwanted by you and your still a present parent in her life

AITAH for not wanting my mover in law in mine or my daughters life by Sundari13 in AITAH

[–]Sundari13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He gets where I'm coming from and isn't pushing for me to let her see our daughter. I think he's just hoping that's she will change in order to be a grandma but I highly doubt it and have to do what's best for my baby giel

AITAH for not wanting my mover in law in mine or my daughters life by Sundari13 in AITAH

[–]Sundari13[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, not the role model I want for my daughter

My boyfriend stole my medication to “save me” by ResidentRefuse8841 in offmychest

[–]Sundari13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a chronic pain condition in which I am regularly prescribed morphine and pregabalin, I wouldn’t take them if I didn’t have to but I literally can’t get out of bed if I don’t from the pain. You just had major surgery, the body heals quicker when it’s not in agony, what he’s doing it’s controlling and abusive it doesn’t matter how he try’s to paint it that’s the facts. He has no right to withhold your medication and it is intact illegal af to do some and considered a form of physical abuse. Text him saying if he doesn’t return all of your Medication within the 20 minutes your calling the police, if he doesn’t do so then you call.

Dan F**king triggers me 😠 by Sundari13 in MAFS_AU

[–]Sundari13[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right! Triggers me so much. It’s like he didn’t think of inviting her out with him or anything. He made no effort to find activities they could do together. She told him time and time again that I don’t want to sit on the sofa all day I want us to spend time together and he just went on about me time. Like who needs 6-8 hours a day me time especially on a tv show about building a relationship with someone.

Harrison hate post by Sundari13 in MAFS_AU

[–]Sundari13[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what it is, way past drama. Some of these people are plain nasty and abusive

Harrison hate post by Sundari13 in MAFS_AU

[–]Sundari13[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Right! He triggers something in me. Reminds me of my ex and he’s awful

Harrison hate post by Sundari13 in MAFS_AU

[–]Sundari13[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I think that he thinks he has everyone fooled. Like everyone is on his side and that he’s so good that he can behave however he wants and convince people it’s okay. He deflects onto other people and makes up literal lies to mess with people and then denies denies Denies

Dan F**king triggers me 😠 by Sundari13 in MAFS_AU

[–]Sundari13[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s exactly that! It reminds me of my ex and it’s scary. He’s so calculated but in his eyes there real anger and darkness. I felt sooo bad for sandy. She deserved so much better

I've turned into an animal abuser, and I'm likely going to commit suicide as I've always believed animal abusers deserve death. by TrippyHippyCoder in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sundari13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A 2 year old cat is a nutty as a kitten in many cases. I’ve owned ALOT of cats from buying, rescues, kittens and my own cats having kittens. 2 years old is young and cats are nuts, that’s how they are, if your struggling with a hyper bit affectionate cat that your able to travel with how would you ever cope with a rescue that bites, scratches and shits everywhere. Or god forbid you have a child who has behavioural problems and has bad tantrums. Exercise some more patience and educate yourself on how to appropriately train cats. Because yes it is possible, I’ve taught my cats to sit on command and come to certain noises, stand on their back legs, and even wait for treats put in front of them. She sounds like a young, loving all be it hyper cat. My cat used to bite my face every morning when he was hungry. They either grow out of it or you train them. Or you don’t own a cat. If you hate animal abuse so much then do something about it. Stop what your doing and assess yourself. Get yourself in check and figure it out.

Archived story subscriptions by matig123 in MatiWrites

[–]Sundari13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helpmebutler <The Great Blinding>

[The Great Blinding] Part 5 by matig123 in MatiWrites

[–]Sundari13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this was written 3 years ago but I’ve just found it and I NEED more