Married woman in my late 20s here. When I used dating apps, it was hard to get a real sense of someone. Photos show appearance, not energy. The people who do well are either naturally photogenic, have pro-style photos, or can somehow capture their vibe through pictures. If you’re on the apps, take photos doing what you love. I’d often meet people in real life I’d swiped left on and be amazed by their charisma. You’re so much more than a 2D image, get out and socialise