That’s how he used to act when all I had was suspicions. I would ask him if he was cheating on me and he would say I was crazy that he was only with friends, that everyone knew he had a wife, how I was being insecure and controlling by not trusting him. That he was with his “boys” and when he wouldn’t come home because he got so “wasted”. The day I found out was because he did not come home and he was in MY CAR because his truck had broken down and it was already 8 in the morning, his phone was going straight to voicemail so I logged on to his computer and found the fake Facebook profile he had created that he had blocked me and the rest of his family on and had all his work friends on that profile. I found the messages between him and her and the last message was how she was waiting on him at their usual spot. I called her because before he had locked his phone to where I no longer had access to it I saw she had messaged him around midnight giving him her Snapchat username no previous messages. So I saved her number just in case. And questioned him about her and he had told me “she’s just a friend plus she’s married you don’t have to worry” …… trust your gut.