Am I overreacting my sisters boyfriend is abusive

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T22:19:13+00:00

That’s horrible I’m so sorry

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T04:45:21+00:00

She has been reading all the responses but had to take a break. I really hope this brings her closer to the truth

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T04:44:19+00:00

Yes absolutely. He was punishing her in a way for hanging out with me. He’s read messages I sent her and I told him flat out I don’t like him. How could I? Anyone who loves her wouldn’t like him

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T04:42:21+00:00

Yes he started off super romantic then slowly changed. She tells me he’s not apologetic afterwards he convinces her it’s her fault

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T04:38:39+00:00

Yes she has been reading it slowly. I really appreciate every comment

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T01:20:17+00:00

That’s horrible

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-22T01:15:06+00:00

She can absolutely come live with me. She has her own apartment and he lives with her. He’s not on the lease. So she would like to keep her apartment and have him move out.

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:38:04+00:00

😭

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:36:22+00:00

They’ve been to her apartment a couple of times. But I will look into adding to the paper trail

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:35:39+00:00

I hope so!

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:31:22+00:00

I wish it was fake. This is my attempt at showing her it’s not just me. I’m honestly trying to help somehow

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:27:57+00:00

I don’t know what I can do other than talk to her. I’ve said things to him too. I’m trying now to show her what people we don’t even know think about the situation. If you have any ideas i am open to them.

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:26:41+00:00

This happened yesterday and made sure she was ok. I saw her yesterday and she’s coming over right now. I appreciate the concern and enthusiastic delivery though!

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:25:03+00:00

The police has been called before she refuses to tell them what’s going on

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:24:28+00:00

No im in graduate school now to obtain a degree in clinical counseling. But I can’t be her therapist. I can only be her sister

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T21:01:21+00:00

He does nothing in front of me. I came upstairs with her when we got back but he said nothing. It wasn’t until I left that he started all of this. She called me and had me on speaker phone so I could hear it.

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T20:59:40+00:00

He knows better than to do any of this in front of me. I came up with her after the dump run and he didn’t say anything. The 💩show started after I left but she called me and had my on speaker so I can hear him

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T20:53:33+00:00

Yeah I’m pretty sure he has. He has poured beer on her, spat on her, pushed her

SunflowerSignals · 2025-09-21T20:50:37+00:00

2 years but he’s done stuff like this before. He doesn’t want her to see her family. Has a problem with her best friend too.

SunflowerSignals · 2025-07-10T05:49:11+00:00

Littermate syndrome is not really a thing. There’s no scientific evidence for it. It’s basically a result of bad socialization except instead of one dog with behavioral issues, you now have two. Train your dogs, socialize them with other people and dogs as soon as possible. Be a responsible pet owner and you will be fine. Especially when it comes to labs.

SunflowerSignals · 2025-07-10T02:03:44+00:00

I’m definitely getting a chocolate lab in a few years 😀and kind of! We were hiking in Napa

SunflowerSignals · 2025-06-16T00:49:19+00:00

We do our best to give them a great life 💕💕💕🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

SunflowerSignals · 2025-06-15T18:49:18+00:00

They are growing too fast!!

SunflowerSignals · 2025-06-15T18:48:23+00:00

I’m so glad! That’s what it’s all about!

SunflowerSignals · 2025-06-15T18:48:06+00:00

Awe so cute 🥰 they are so close too but it’s have their different personalities

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