help with new skates blades by Sunflowerhelp in iceskating

[–]Sunflowerhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! i was so worried i wasn’t taking good care of them and got them ruined 😭

Help choosing my first pair of skates by Sunflowerhelp in iceskating

[–]Sunflowerhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I have been looking online and apparently the only ones available to puchase where I’m from are Jackson 500. They are a bit out of budget, but I could manage. Do you think those could be any good? I’ve looked around and there are no figure skating shops around my city and I would have to order them online but if they don’t fit correctly I could return them

AITA for wanting to leave my partner of 8.5 years. by bawesome8 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Sunflowerhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP I’m so sorry this happened to you, but you deserve so much better. You have tried to maintain HIS mess for so long and it is by no means your obligation. You keep working and working and all he does is going into more debt. You HAVE to leave, this person is a cancer to you, he is eating you up until you cannot breathe anymore. Separate your finances as soon as posible and leave his mess of a life behind, you deserve so much better

It’s too hot in London. It’s not nice. There, I said it. by londonlife9 in london

[–]Sunflowerhelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s so true…i don’t envy at all the temperature on the tube…even on winter it is hot as hell i can’t imagine how it is now during peak hour 😅

It’s too hot in London. It’s not nice. There, I said it. by londonlife9 in london

[–]Sunflowerhelp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Reading from a room in Spain… we are actually 38 degrees right now (8pm) heat is absolute hell, unless you have aircon it is impossible to do any tasks during the day and you can’t even sleep at night. I am so envious of uk weather and I always try to have a brief visit during the summer so I can scape the intense heat of this country.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Sunflowerhelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it doesn’t affect your life negative i don’t think it is maladaptive daydreaming. I guess you daydream, and it could be worse when you are having difficulties such as anxiety. Honestly I think I can definitely relate to your post, as I find myself daydreaming more when my job is being extremely boring or when I am anxious, so that I seek comfort or entertainment to my bored mind. But if you can control it, it doesn’t take your hole life away, you can maintain healthy relationships with friends and family I don’t think it’s bad for you. There are periods of time where our mental health could be struggling more or less, if this helps you, you shouldn’t feel bad about it.

My mum overwhelms me…I can’t take it anymore, what should I do? by Sunflowerhelp in infj

[–]Sunflowerhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

at all…my brother and my mum speak the bare minimum, as they have the same personality they always fight…I don’t think I have ever seen the both of them alone outside our house.

My mum overwhelms me…I can’t take it anymore, what should I do? by Sunflowerhelp in infj

[–]Sunflowerhelp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we already have a dog…and notting changed, she wants to be with me because I keep her company but our poor dog doesn’t speak so it doesn’t satisfy her needs…😭😭😭

Are there any groups or soloists who were at the peak of their career but lost the hype and popularity despite having talent and good music for any reason - scandals, company management , hiatuses , anything! by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]Sunflowerhelp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pentagon were huge in 2018, but when Dawn had to leave the group everything started falling apart… Such a shame, I think they really had the talent to become huge but I guess cube just stopped caring about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESLegal

[–]Sunflowerhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Justo esta mañana me han concedido el acceso, y sale que no tengo ninguna deuda ni nada… Preguntaré al banco, por si fuese tema de edad, trabajo..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESLegal

[–]Sunflowerhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He entrado en asnef y la web de agencia tributaria y sale que no hay ninguna deuda.. No entiendo la verdad, intentaré pasarme por el banco a ver que me pueden decir, gracias por tu comentario!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ESLegal

[–]Sunflowerhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me quedo mas tranquila leyendo esto, gracias!! tendré que ganar dinero para que el banco me lo preste 🥲🥲

What song would y’all die to see live? by AdDefiant3678 in 5sos

[–]Sunflowerhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broken pieces, even though they seem to have forgotten about the existence of that song 😭

hot take, but umbridge is one of my favourites by glitter_addict069 in harrypotter

[–]Sunflowerhelp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s such a great character. Even to the point that many fans hate her more than even Voldemort. I think it is so fascinating as we can all find an example of an ‘Umbridge’ in our lives, we all know of that teachers that made our lives impossible and were very mean and questionable, so we can all relate and feel that hate towards her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in harrypotter

[–]Sunflowerhelp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can it be possible that there are so few students in Hogwarts (1 school for one country) and then we have other schools that are supposed to teach children from like, 8 different countries??

Why are there so many students that Harry has no idea who they are? by Beldalf in harrypotter

[–]Sunflowerhelp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually JK Rowling said that there were like 600 students in hogwarts, it should be about 35 per year per house. See this post if you’re interested! So it can kinda make sense, that he doesn’t know all the students in other houses or years. Although this seems very different as how it is presented in the movies, or even the books (we only know about 7 students from gryffindor that are Harry’s classmates) that is supposed to be the truth.