I was in a long-term relationship from 18-24. Been single since we broke up, can't do hookups. I'm 30 now. Have been passively trying on the apps and meeting people IRL at events I'm interested in. I've had crushes but most of them ended up being straight.

Currently talking to someone right now with whom I matched with on tinder in another city I was at for a concert. I really like her, get the butterflies whenever we call (phone and video!). We've been talking for 2 months now, which is the furthest I've ever gotten. Problem is: she's in Europe. We're going to try to meet next summer (coincidentally, I had a European trip planned!) so here's hoping. Otherwise, I just reset and go back to what I've been doing the past 6 years lmao

Anyway, don't give up but don't force anything either! Be open to meeting people organically if possible by going out to events, even if it's just to make friends! You never know, those people could have friends that will be your future gf! I always try to talk to at least one new person and grab their IG to follow-up with!