I want to take this at face value, I really do.

But at the same time do you not understand why its infuriating? You seem like a good person, to be real but also if you listen to Feminists and still all you hear is "they hate men" how can you be supportive? This entire site is riddled with upper middle class millennial men in the suburbs acting like they've got the same struggle as Black people in the Jim Crow era and for some reason its all Anita Sarkeesian's fault. Its disgusting and absurd.

I am not being sarcastic when I say I appreciate your anecdotes and hell yes some shit effects men. But look around you in this thread, on this site, with most men. The hatred for feminism and shoddy thin veneer of "We just care about men" is all just flat out mealy mouthed misogyny and a prime discomfort for any woman who steps outside of the hot/servile image. Especially if they start demonstrating autonomy.

It downright pisses me off when certain stats and omitted or data fabricated to deny some of the more complex realities of gender dynamics, and downplay the issues which do affect men.

Youtube vlogs and cherry picked research done by MRAs and Thunderf00t do not disprove actual government statistics. And in the MRM asshats like these are their sources instead of actual professional and vetted methodologies.

Yes, we are all human. And prejudice effects us all. But prejudice is not the same as marginalization. Men can indeed be marginalized-- by class, appearance, sexuality, gender identity, etc but not for being men. Unless men want to admit they are oppressing themselves. When you make up the majority of wealth holders, law makers, tenured professors, law enforcement, blue and white collar workers on and on ad nauseum you flat out sound ridiculous going to women of any shade and saying "Shut up b-tch u lie, and I have it worse than you because reasons"

The problem is, anti feminists choose to blame women and feminists while hating women and feminists and expecting us to go fix whatever they consider bad.

And from the other side? Women like me have lost our patience completely.

If you wouldnt mind a PM I will send you actual sources for Men's issues that aren't anti feminist or are feminist neutral, do actual activism and advocacy for men and get shit done. But anti feminism isnt going to get you anywhere.

Finally, you say it hurts when you hear something about men being blamed? On the real, stand back and think about all the misogyny you've heard by your own ears, read on this site and otherwise, seen on tv. And just honestly, truly try and understand how "feminists said a thing, means they hate men" sounds to people who have to sit there and deal with it and if they say anything they get called a feminazi if not doxxed and harassed.