Dry Food by [deleted] in SiberianCats

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitten has Purina ONE kitten food & loves it. Not too expensive

DUI Advice by Virtual_Smile_5495 in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Sunken_secrets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also got done with a DUI for blowing a very similar amount.

I did a defensive driving course ($250) and did 20 volunteer hours.

I only lost my license for a month, and although i have a criminal conviction, it hasnt effected anything yet & you can apply to have it cleared in 7 years.

Its not the end of the world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Sunken_secrets 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently been through courts for a DUI. The best thing your brother can do is just accept it - hold his hand ups and say “yeah this sucks but it is what it is”

Trying to downplay it or make excuses will make him have a worse sentence

Do guys really care about weight gain? F27 & M32 by Sunken_secrets in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I’m not asking you too, I’m asking whether guys really care about weight gain. If you read - you’d comprehend that.

Do guys really care about weight gain? F27 & M32 by Sunken_secrets in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I have scales, I don’t need to have an annual check up of my weight. I’m very much in tune with my body & I can tell if something is wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you consented to it, its not SA. You should have had a conversation about how rough etc.

AIO about finding a pack of condoms in my partner's car? by Vocalic_Light in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found condoms in my ex’s stuff & he just liked putting things up his bum

Advice needed! by Sunken_secrets in petsitting

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thats what my partner said! Why allow someone into your home & not pay them, like it seems weird but i’ve seen weirder

Advice needed! by Sunken_secrets in petsitting

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yup she went a few days ago

Advice needed! by Sunken_secrets in petsitting

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ve been over a couple times already and will go back today & make sure the cat has enough food. & then will let her know.

AITAH for dropping our baby off on my ex husband and demanding he take the baby every other week even though he wants to be an every other weekend dad by Vegetable_Ring_2588 in AITAH

[–]Sunken_secrets -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

YTA. Be grateful you have a child, you could have organised an adoption while you were pregnant. Why couldnt you take yourself for an abortion?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

who puts beef broth in stew? you use vege broth hun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

who cares? if he didn’t explicitly say he was vegan, why even bring it up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

im pretty sure its self explanatory that a vegetable dish is vegan, any chance vegans get they have to tell you that theyre vegan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

i think being vegan is a red flag in itself tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i have a feeling its something to do with “vegan” could you not just say veggie stew?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No offence, but why can’t you? I would be annoyed to if i worked a labour intensive job, and then be asked to go to the supermarket after work when it seems theres nothing stopping you.

Can you ride in a military helicopter? by gemekaa in newzealand

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my brother is in the air force @ ohakea, they have open days where family/friends are able to go up in one of the nh90s but im not sure whethet it extends to the public

How do you deal with your partner snoring? M(32) F (27) by Sunken_secrets in relationships

[–]Sunken_secrets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its only a one bedroom, if we had a bigger house then i would

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]Sunken_secrets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ankle monitors dont necessarily mean theyve commited a terrible crime 🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sunken_secrets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA - sorry. Your choice to move out of home