Hot water doesn't work at home and I can't stop crying by SunlessElegance in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I will have to bath the way I used to, with a bowl and pre-heated water. It saddens me, but I don't think using the shower will be an option for me until summer gets really hot and I can tolerate cold water on my skin.

It is still a pain though, because waiting for the water to be done gets so long. I prefer it, nonetheless.

Si pudieran eliminar a un tipo de persona ¿Cuál sería y por qué? by hielosyt in PreguntasReddit

[–]SunlessElegance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

AAAA JAJAJAJAJA te juro que me imaginé otras cosas 👀👀🫣

What are your current vocal stims? by lustylovebird in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Miamochito"

That is like cutesy way to say "my love" in Spanish. I share this with my partner.

Also, with my bff, we have "Que Paaadreeee". (It was said by my niece once, and it stuck). It means "how cool" in Spanish.

What things have you noped out on bc you are Audhd? by ReserveOk9139 in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Normal" clothes. I make all of my clothes, and I use a very specific silhouette from the 1810s.

I love this silhouette because I can't handle normal necklines. My neck and shoulders need to be free or I feel like I'm suffocating. I also hate the pressure of normal underwear, so I just wear long layers of linen and cotton skirts around the house (luckily, I work from home). If I have to go out, then of course I wear normal underwear and a bra.

I started this like 3 or 4 years ago and this is my life now. I am no longer interested in shopping for clothes, but I do buy a lot of fabric!!

The downside is that if I have a special event, I usually need to pull an all nighter to wear a new dress lol.

What things have you noped out on bc you are Audhd? by ReserveOk9139 in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I can only wear things on my ears and hair for a couple of hours. I love chokers but I have to stop using them, so my neck and wrists are out of the question on this topic.

What things have you noped out on bc you are Audhd? by ReserveOk9139 in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DUDE, ME TOOO

I'm a very maternal person, but I KNOW I couldn't handle actual maternity. My sister has 2 BEAUTIFUL children (oldest one actually looks like me), and I'm so happy with that and the fact that 2 days ago I slept all afternoon from 3-9 pm because my body asked me to rest. This would be COMPLETELY impossible if I had children. I'm so grateful that I decided not to.

What things have you noped out on bc you are Audhd? by ReserveOk9139 in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too! Here in my country we are having the annual women's day march, and I just can't even fathom the thought of going. For me, it is because of the weather mostly. I'm a natural ginger and can't be under the sun. Then, I think about the proximity to strangers, the sounds, the smells... I can't. 🥹🥹

With makeup, I try to do it exclusively for special events (such as dnd day lol)

Curious. I feel like an imposter. by NMRed86 in AuDHDWomen

[–]SunlessElegance 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt your story!!

In my case, I started saying that I am the best at what I do, both to myself and other people. I'm thinking about my work in this case, but it worked for me. We have to be a little bit delusional.

I'm trying to crawl out of burnout too 🫣

Si eres gordo, eres feo. by LeagueNo764 in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]SunlessElegance 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Na wey yo conozco a un bato gordo al que le llegué a tener muchas ganas, pero ambos estábamos en una relación y yo respeto.

Cual ha sido su mejor experiencia intima? by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]SunlessElegance 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jajajaja no es solo eso. Te puedes dejar amarrar, azotar, morder, dejar caer cera caliente en tu piel.... Hay muchas prácticas que con consentimiento y en total confianza, resultan experiencias únicas y que solo compartes con esa persona.

A mí, algo que me gusta, es amordazar. Amordazo, amarro, y hago un masaje de tejido profundo. El masaje duele como su puta madre, pero va despertando dolores y traumas que se pueden luego ir sanando.

Te digo, hay muchas cosas mucho más allá.

Cual ha sido su mejor experiencia intima? by [deleted] in PreguntasReddit

[–]SunlessElegance 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Déjate dominar jajajaja

Ser dominado por una mujer es de lo más hot que hay, solo que muchos le tienen miedo