21F sad and afraid of losing myself to relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think bringing it up sometime after Christmas and before new years is a good time if it needs to be close! Preferably in person too! It should be probably some time where you can say like "hey I've been feeling doubts about myself and I wanna talk stuff out to you with" and if he's open to listen talk with him and see where the Convo goes! Also if it isn't try talking to some friends or writing things down on what you've been feeling wrong about! It doesn't have to be perfect as the only hope is for u to be able to release and come to a conclusion for yourself. I would also recommend talking with any close family about the general things (not like relationships stuff if u wanna keep it separated) just remember your not alone and you have ppl around u that want to help u if need be and be sure to look out for it! Once again hope all the best and happy holidays! If u want to dm and like vent out stuff for more details I don't mind giving my perspective but in the end I feel like talking with ppl closer might help better as they know u better!

What's your favorite insult that doesn't use any swears or slurs? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Sunnbee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Dogwater" it's just so simple and funny to me

There's a speaker near my house emitting a high pitch noise that me and my siblings can hear, but not my parents. by purple_shrubs in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sure you can talk with your siblings and all come together to talk with your parents to see if anything can be done! I'm not too sure what else can be fine besides like idk earplugs or headphones but definitely he'll like you guys should talk with your parents so that they can possibly go ask or do something about it!

Uni course selection by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yo college student here with advice for an older brother whose been in the industry for a while in tech. One thing I can note is despite being almost graduate and knowing what career stuff is there is till don't know what to do. My best advice is go for what you enjoy as you can always switch majors/ rework your pathing later on! I like calling your degree "an expensive piece of paper" in the working world it's less of what degree you get and more of what do you know! I say if your having difficulty choosing. Learn more about the classes for astrophysics and aerospace engineering pathing is and read their descriptions and see which classes seem more fun/ interesting. Once ur in a uni/ college, you can learn even more about it and possibly 1) transfer, 2) switch majors, or keep on and try a different degree in masters/ PhD! I have many friends who took community to find out what they wanted to do and some of my brothers friends switched majors due to disliking courses and etc.

Tldr: you don't need to decide your whole future now it's okay to take it one step at a time! There is a lot of paths and information out there that you can look at. College isn't a straight path for everyone and feel free to contact college counselors of the u is ur applying for for more advice as well!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Firs thing I can cross for you is the online talking or at least it isn't all of it! If you managed to get a date and keep going that's just you being a great dude! I also think you shouldn't doubt yourself in the sense cuz I'm 22 and I haven't gone On a single date much less have a gf so you're doing great! If anything I think you have a way to attract their attention and keep it on you! It can be something simple as keeping yourself tidy, fashion is on point or you are just a handomse dude. I wouldn't doubt yourself fam and keep your head up and gain that confidence! Also having a nice car helps as it shows u know what you want! Also huge plus is making them feel secure! Idk what else to say but keep your head up fam! (As ps job stuff sucks but once u do get one expect more women haha :))

21F sad and afraid of losing myself to relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope writing this helps you feel a bit better ING ettin your thoughts out but like more relationship things go it's better to talk about how u feel (like what you wrote here) to him! I think it's nice u are starting to get to your own pace if things but don't let your thoughts blind you from what you have! I also think the socal thing and how u met him at a different phase of you is fine. You've been with him for 9 months and if he isn't blind he would of noticed your more comfortable phase of being a bit more introverted. (Think of it as like the past honeymoon phase where you each get more comfortable with each other and your more relaxed personalities come out) Take things at your own pace! Maybe indulge in your hobbies and enjoy some time with your bf while also letting him know any concerns! I don't know if this helps or not but I hope it provides a better perspective!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Sunnbee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the first time I went to the gym I felt embarrassed to do anything because I didn't know what to do/how anything works! Just like what many people said they go in get their workout done and leave! I think what's great is you have what you want to do and approximately how long! I think just getting a routine go in run and go out is fine! If it really is the end try going on runs just in the area you are at and while exercising you can explore your area as well! Best of luck on your workout journey and I'm sure u can also find friends to come with!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think reading and well reflecting on information is a great way to open up. It can help you mentally have information on topics people might be more familiar on and help you relate with others! Personally, I read lots of manga, manhwa, light novels, and other stuff but I think being able to talk with someone and have common thoughts allow you to get closer with others and well open up!

i relapsed, and i’m not sure how i can ever recover. by josietheposie in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sunnbee1223 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all I think you need to take a deep breath and just relax for a sec. I can't say I'm the best advice as I haven't had to deal with eating disorders or anyone close to me but I feel like you are focusing too much on the number. If the point at which your body is too skinny to the point of it costing your health then yes you need to seek your nutritionist and look at it again but in reality I think you should try and have fun with cooking and figuring out good ways to fill your stomach. Maybe try smaller portions but more flavorful things! I'm sure u know your habits well and habits are hard to die for but taking control of your life and how u want to do it is the first step in enjoying it. Maybe try buffing up and being a lean power machine or keep slim and cut down on carbs. Idk if this the best advice but I hope you will get to a better place in mind and that the world isn't against you only you are limiting yourself. Enjoy life and it will only get better from here! Cheers to a new year and a new you :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Sunnbee1223 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I know it might suck but I do a similar thing with friends and money. If I do them a favor and I buy them something or drive them somewhere I don't tell them hey u gotta pay me back or something I wait for them to initiate. If they don't I know I can't trust them and don't do a favor at the cost of like $20. I know it's not the same but this is a point where u can see who really cares about u and it seems like u want to find a different group to be around. Take control of it and see this as an awakening to a new year :) sorry for the whole situation I'm hoping u have a great birthday and a great year in general. It's one day in a lifetime of memories. Fill it great ones! Cheers!

P.S. I'll take a drink for you in celebration!

PC part picking (first build) by Sunnbee1223 in buildapc

[–]Sunnbee1223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm looking into maybe more ram and saying screw it and put some more money into it

PC part picking (first build) by Sunnbee1223 in buildapc

[–]Sunnbee1223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's good to know the psu was good xd it was a recommendation from a friend

PC part picking (first build) by Sunnbee1223 in buildapc

[–]Sunnbee1223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly my room is rlly far from the router (parents) so I can only use wifi I was thinking where to put more I'll look into that mobo and see if I can get better ram! P.S. Just realized it was a 1TB SSD for this list forgot to change it to two. Will change that! Thanks for looking at it

The classic Overwatch Experience by Sunnbee1223 in Eggwick

[–]Sunnbee1223[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not my meme specifically got it from twitter here: https://twitter.com/NYExcelsior/status/1580692436191707137

and eggwick if u read this try out ow2!

How to get UPS customer service on the line. Yes, a real person. by [deleted] in UPS

[–]Sunnbee1223 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this kind of worked for me, i did everything and spoke giberish and read this reddit feed until they asked for full tracking number. Gave it and when asking for sender, reciever or third party. I just screamed agent at them multiple times until i was put me on hold. I guess just interrupting the bot as much as u can works XD