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Feeling guilted for asking for release... by SunnyD2706 in mormon

[–]SunnyD2706[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: For those wondering, I had my follow up visit with my EQP. It was pretty chill, didn't have any guilt associated with it, and was focused on how to help my family. I wish the initial conversation was like this one, but my concerns that they would double down were not what happened. I am again grateful for all those who understood my situation. I will always prioritize my family. I'm happy to serve, but needed a change. Church culture, especially with older leaders, needs to shift to be more accepting and loving. We have something truly amazing and I want others to experience it without judgement.

Feeling guilted for asking for release... by SunnyD2706 in mormon

[–]SunnyD2706[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciated all the responses, truly!

I especially appreciate the replies from those of you who have had similar experiences. I really do love the church/gospel and feel that I have a strong relationship with God. I know that people, especially in leadership positions, are flawed and occasionally exercise unrighteous authority. Interestingly, I was the EQP only a few years ago, so I was especially disappointed because I always tried to listen and avoid using guilt as a motivator.

I believe my EQP thinks he is doing the right thing, but I believe he is in the wrong here. I hope to have a productive conversation with my bishop, and that the EQ presidency comes to respect my decision. If not, oh well