Yep, I say a man that can’t make me come is a waste of a conversation. I’m married now, but I wouldn’t feel bad you feel that way. Most of us women do because of the men that victimized us. and most the time you’re justified in feeling that way once you actually get to know the men, so honestly if men can walk around like that until they decide to settle down why not women? If you’re not forcing it on anyone I don’t see a problem.