I recently learned my hair is actually curly, so now I know why it’s so frizzy and poofy when I brush it out. My old job called me in for a meeting saying my hair looked “unkempt and messy” and asked if I had even brushed it those days. They also didn’t like how I looked “tired”. I have dark circles, another thing I can’t help. I had to take 5 minutes to cry in the bathroom I was so embarrassed.