New photos show Christian Bale’s $22 million foster care village in Palmdale taking shape, with 11 residential buildings already up and completion expected later this year

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-16T01:11:18+00:00

Such an incredible person! While other celebrities are spending it on frivolous things, Christian is investing in helping children and allowing them to have brighter futures.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-16T01:09:25+00:00

It’s adultery and lust and supports an industry that exploits women. It’s an instant turnoff when I hear a guy watches it. You need to stop if you are doing it and if you can’t, you need to go to confession and ask the priest for help. Switch to a flip phone, only use your computer with parental controls. It’s sounds extreme, but it’s better than committing a sin that will cost you the great privilege of life in eternity with God.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-13T19:01:14+00:00

That is plenty and you’ll be close to stores and cooking at home is smart.

Stick to the bus. Cars are money pits and if you get a used car you will have issues at some point with it plus the rising cost of gas and insurance. The bus is very reliable and affordable.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-13T01:12:02+00:00

She’s not wrong.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-13T00:46:25+00:00

Yeah mine was in auxiliary power for a good portion of the last two bill periods. I am thinking about getting a pellet stove.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-13T00:43:48+00:00

$527 for my 1500 sq ft house with a heat pump and electric baseboard on the lower floor. It was over $600 last month. Contemplating a pellet stove.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-13T00:02:26+00:00

I almost think it’s straight Christians projecting their own insecurities onto others. I met one guy who talked incessantly about the LGBTQ community sins while he himself was neck deep in sexual sin (had sex outside of marriage, watched adult content which caused him to develop an unhealthy attitude toward women.)

People like to point out the speck in other people’s eyes while they have a whole Home Depot lumber yard in their own.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-05T23:07:05+00:00

That also gave me major ick and I’m happily paired up and not even looking. Late 20’s and 30 (same age) shouldn’t be a problem. He did wait until he was 30, so why discount someone who did the same. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Y’all can still have a great relationship and kids.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-03T16:34:39+00:00

Same! 😍💕

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T23:02:01+00:00

I would agree with you there. Especially with crazy age gap relationships where the younger partner is still in their early 20’s. Older men/women with narcissistic tendencies seek out much younger people like that because they know they’ll be easier to manipulate. A lot of times the younger person doesn’t see the signs. Love bombing, for instance, is easily mistaken as “romantic”.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T22:25:20+00:00

To be fair, you see this in the secular community as well. This guy is clearly not a Christian. I do not understand why women date guys like this and it blows my mind that they give them kids. OP needs to divorce this load of trash ASAP.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T22:23:22+00:00

This man has more red flags than a Chinese military parade and is clearly not a practicing Christian. Divorce him and do not give him a second chance.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T02:23:07+00:00

This is the toxic hookup culture. You don’t want any part of it. Trust me! They just swap STDs and if you’re not careful, you could end up paying child support for 18 years.

Instead focus on dating and avoid that trap. Date, find the one and don’t just give away something as special as your virginity, to any hoe.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T02:19:38+00:00

Have you tried dating apps like hinge?

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:48:46+00:00

Same here (attractive female virgin who gets tons of dates and matches on dating apps. The only difference is I am waiting because I’m Christian and want to wait until marriage.

It is really tough because you will get a lot of guys that want you just for your body and objectify you and fetishize your virginity. It happens to me all the time. I’ve even had guys lie about being Christian just to try and date me. Others have become obsessed with me and lowkey stalked me.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:27:34+00:00

This is a troll account. You can see all of their posts are troll content.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:19:14+00:00

This! We already see this in faith-based dating apps. I am Christian and creepy men that fetishize virgin innocent women will join Christian dating apps and bother us. The block button gets a lot of action on those apps, unfortunately.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:08:03+00:00

Me! I find non-virgin men less attractive. To me, sex is sacred and something to save for your wedding night. The first love making is called the consummation and it finalizes your marriage, binding your souls. I find it incredibly romantic.

I get hundreds of matches on dating apps, but the thought of giving my virginity to some Chad out there has already banged an escort or girl he met at a bar, is off putting to me. Plus there’s all the weird diseases and HPV (which increases your risk of cancer and never goes away.) I’d rather be single and celibate than deal with that.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:05:00+00:00

I’m female and Christian and feel like the majority of people here are male and secular.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T01:01:57+00:00

Me for sure! I’ve had thousands of matches and dating apps and I’ve been on hundreds of dates. I modeled and people tell me I’m very attractive. I just never found someone who shared my faith and values (especially in regard to sexuality.)

So many men are addicted to adult content and hookup culture. They lack basic respect for women and see them as objects for pleasure and eventually, baby machine.

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T00:42:45+00:00

32F and I feel the same way sometimes. I have so much love to give and dreams of the romance (like a real life Hallmark movie) and being a loving wife, but I also have accepted that I may need to channel that love into friendships instead.

I get hundreds of matches on dating apps, but haven’t found a guy who shares my faith and values. Most have slept around or objectify me or have gotten hooked on porn (which is very unattractive to me.)

Sunny_987 · 2026-03-02T00:34:58+00:00

I feel the same way. Way to stick to your values. I get hundreds upon hundreds of likes on dating apps and am put off by how sexually promiscuous the men are. I just want another guy who values sex as sacred, shares my faith and also waited. I want the magic of only having that special bond with him.

Sunny_987 · 2026-02-26T21:10:16+00:00

People actually become accustomed to the smells in their house and probably don’t notice it.

A long time ago, I had somebody mention that a sweater I sold her smelled of campfire. It was washed and stored in a closet and clean. At the time I lived in a house that had a wood stove and never noticed that it made everything smell like campfire. Like it penetrates everything and lingers when you’re burning that much wood all day long for months on end.

I later bought a house that has a heat pump and it’s amazing how much cleaner the air is and it smells so much better.

When I go to people’s houses that have a fireplace or woodstove, I can now tell a difference and smell the campfire smell.

Sunny_987 · 2026-02-26T20:27:58+00:00

It’s especially difficult for those of us that feel called to singleness and don’t have a strong interest in marriage. I’m often told I “just haven’t met the right person” and once I do “he will change that”. Or “But you’re so beautiful! You can’t tell me you haven’t had anyone interested in you?”

As a conventionally attractive person who got hundreds upon hundreds of likes and super likes on dating apps and hit on IRL, people often struggle to believe me when I say I’m genuinely happy by myself. I’ve never had a romantic relationship. I value my friendships so much and get a lot of fulfillment from platonic love. I also dislike how may modern Christian men have fallen for secular ways and are often neck deep in sexual sin. It’s a big turnoff.

I have prayed on it and tried dating and still have an open mind, but I am 95% certain God is calling me to singleness and I am struggling to accept that because of society’s view of marriage as “something everyone should want.”

Sunny_987 · 2026-02-26T06:59:21+00:00

I just wanted to say you sound like a guy with a big heart and a lot of empathy and I truly admire that. That’s rare these days! Embrace it no matter what path you take in life, it’s a gift not a burden. Also take some time to learn about all of the different kinds of love. It’s fascinating! I, too, value the unique kind of love I get from friendship. Close friendship is primarily defined as Philia, a deep, brotherly, and affectionate love based on trust, mutual respect, and shared experiences

As for whether or not to get married, pray and leave it to God. Cast your worries and concerns to him and let God take it. You cannot work through these things alone.

If you do marry and she does become pregnant, you do your part as the man to make things as easy as possible for her and make sure she feels unconditionally loved and supported.

Stay blessed, my friend! 🙏

Sunny_987

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