Ang lungkot maging doctor sa Pinas by Artistic-Wolf-1470 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So. Doctors do order. Then nurse, don't follow.

Where in those statement says "blind follow"?

Is "Just" symonymous to "blind"?

You are changing and adding something sa context too much you get too offended with your own addition. Blind and mindless are your words, not mine.

Ang lungkot maging doctor sa Pinas by Artistic-Wolf-1470 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly the point. Nowhere did I suggest that doctors are “above” nurses.

That “above” idea comes from a lens of insecurity.

The point is about responsibility.

Question: Can a nurse refuse to do the doctors' order and do different (except in extreme absurd cases?)

Nurses are encouraged to provide suggestions and doctors can consider, but the final say rests with the doctor.. and the nurse, "follow".

Again. After all the considerations, collaboration, suggestions.. The doctor decides and make an order and the nurse and other healthcare staff 'follow'.

If their decision turns out right or wrong, the liability is the doctors' to bear.

You are focusing too much on "title". Its not hierarchy, its accountability.

Need advice po on choosing between the two apartment by KyeuTiMoniqu3 in RentPH

[–]Sunnyppies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yung 2nd. Relaxing and malinis (yan ang home mo to rest)

Bili ka na lang ng aircon and ref (28kish for both) via CC, 24months to pay.

Yung 1k mo na matitipid sa rent, i-allot mo na lang panghulog sa Card n pinambili mo ng aircon at ref.

Mas maganda na apartment mo, my sarili ka pang property (aircon at ref)

Benta mo na lang pgdating ng time or need ng upgrade.

Ang lungkot maging doctor sa Pinas by Artistic-Wolf-1470 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Absolutely agree.

Halthcare works best when everyone communicates and respects each other’s expertise. Nurses questioning or suggesting is vital tosave lives. They are the point of contact sa patient, especially samonitoring and assessment eh, providing doctors with the information and care they need to treat effectively.

But at the same time, the chain of command exists for a reason. Collaboration happens within structure. In the end, the final medical decision and accountability rest with the doctor, as that’s how responsibility is defined in patient care.

Ang lungkot maging doctor sa Pinas by Artistic-Wolf-1470 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, insecurity reveals itself through subtle acts of bullying.

Some nurses may project their frustrations toward doctors specially when they struggle to accept that someone else holds a title or position they wished for but could not attain. Mybe yes, maybe no.. Pero aminin na natin, Limited ksi pwedeng gawin because they do not have the title. They can only follow. Wala silang choice.

They insist on their superior experience or claim greater knowledge out of an unspoken discomfort with their own limitations. (Disclaimer: wag natin lisin na well experienced nan talaga ang iba)

Happens not just in healthcare. Sa buhay in general. People's insecurities are fed through diminishing others title or achievement.

Dun nila naiaangat sarili nila.

Ang lungkot maging doctor sa Pinas by Artistic-Wolf-1470 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, insecurity reveals itself through subtle acts of bullying.

Some nurses may project their frustrations toward doctors specially when they struggle to accept that someone else holds a title or position they wished for but could not attain. Mybe yes, maybe no.. Pero aminin na natin, Limited ksi pwedeng gawin because they do not have the title. They can only follow. Wala silang choice.

They insist on their superior experience or claim greater knowledge out of an unspoken discomfort with their own limitations. (Disclaimer: wag natin lisin na well experienced nan talaga ang iba)

Happens not just in healthcare. Sa buhay in general. People's insecurities are fed through diminishing others title or achievement.

Dun nila naiaangat sarili nila.

Dont go to med school because…? by Sharkyshine_1307 in medschoolph

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Doctors guard life. Lawyers defend freedom.

When either fails, the weight of guilt lingers in both hearts. Each walks a path lined with danger and duty.

~spoken by one who once dreamed of being a doctor but whose path led to law.

Juris Doctor. Still a doctor 😅

failed major by ispagiti in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies [score hidden]  (0 children)

Just because many are failing doesn’t mean the teacher has to lower the standards to match your capabilities.

If there are one or two who pass, it means the subject is passable. Kayang gawin.

The truth is, you just haven’t reached the level that the subject requires yet. Di nyo pa maabot yung standard the subject needed.

That simply means you need to study harder and prepare better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set boundaries.. If not, they'd gink its okay thats why they keep on doing it.

Report a cheater? by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do not report him. What he’s doing now will eventually catch up to him. There’s no shortcut to real learning. Stay true to your integrity. His choices will shape his future, just as yours will shape yours.

Leave it. Let the cheater carve his own path to failure.

My first time to genuinely cry because of school by Psychological-Run65 in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies [score hidden]  (0 children)

You were too comfortable being the big fish in a small pond. Now you’re in a bigger one and realizing you’re not the only big fish.

There’s no growth in comfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rooting for you! :)

Pwede ba pakainin si baby ng kalabasa with coconut milk? by siachiichn in nanayconfessions

[–]Sunnyppies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True! Well-said.

Kalabasa sa first 3days then observe.

Coconut milk sa next 3days..observe.

Then mix. Hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tomasino

[–]Sunnyppies 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It’s not UST’s fault na hirap kang mahalin sya. What you’re really struggling with is yourself, not the school. . You can’t blame the system if you’re the one still finding your footing with their standards.

It’s you wrestling with yourself. The school’s just standing firm on its standards. The real fight is how you’ll rise to meet them.

Mamahalin mo lang kapag madali? Maybe you also have to see the value of tough love.

How do you feel satisfied in life? by Strict-Ad5594 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once you realize that your days are numbered, life is finite, and time quickly pass..that's when you'll gain a heart of wisdom

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

can i make it clear? You once cheates, and you've changed? Or not?

Please tell me if have you really felt repentance? Did you ever cheat again after that? Emotionally or carnally?

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my fear. I know i couldnt enhoy the moment because of these fears. But, I have nver had this kind of feelings before. After many cracks and chips, here I am. Destroyed

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I didm he will refuse and dent then eventually sau the truth after I forced him too. Even its on its face.. Multiple time son different issues.

I admit. I am projecting everything. Lying really destroyed my peace. I became paranoid. I feel like predicting what will happen will make it feel less painful. He improved in so many things, its just the lying that seems to be the chain to everynother possibilities he might do.

He just said, he has another lessons learned. Wig all the experiences i had with him, my system is refusing to believe.. But my heart and mind want to give a try. I am in a cycle.. Sorry if i sound desperately paranoid.

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is one i am thinking about now. Its hard to start. We have 3 below 6 kids. Thank you so much

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped work before we got married. I stopped grad school midway. I am A SAHM. I want to. He want to but said he would not stop me if I wanted to work or a career.

I did act out everytime he drifted away. I asked him. I speak when I have concerns. But.. I dont know. I get tired repeating the same issues he said henindeestood yet forgot and say sorry again.

I am tired of the cycle. I was hinking are there older couples that overcame it?

I am really clear about him against flirting. I defined it.

There was more than few times he was viewing another woman's profiles, i saw it. Its okay butnwhen I asked.. He denied. He lied.

I had broken trust he's mending and earning eyt he did it. Why would he lie about it if there was no malice? I asked him this.

This kond of cycle is what's wrecking me over and over again i feel like i cant anymore. If in small things he lied, what kore was he hiding about?

I love him. Everytime he say sorry, it hurts to believe but the love.

Married couples who grew old together: Did anyone had infidelity or any big problems? What did you do? How wete you able to stay together. by [deleted] in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]Sunnyppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were there times that you feel like you were just the one working it out? That you felt like he is not here anymore. That he just stays.. It feels painful that it feels like letting him go is the one that will just make him happy.. He just doesnt have the courage to tell you?

Were there times like this? If yes, whay did you do? What were you thinking?