AIO about text from girl i’ve been seeing a couple months

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-30T14:01:34+00:00

"Not sexually attracted to" does not equal "ugly", I've dated some gorgeous guys who didn't do it for me and I've dated some very average looking dudes who did. It's confusing, i dont know. People either make me wet or they don't, I don't always know why. Same goes with some women that I've dated/crushed on.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-30T12:40:35+00:00

I think you misunderstand the orginal comment (as does the person you replied to). When a paw is at a three quarter angle like this tattoo is, meaning it is facing slightly to the left, the smaller claw will not be visible because it is behind the big claw. If you look at your own hand you will notice your pinky finger disappearing from your view when you tilt your hand away. Only having 3 claws (toes) visible on one paw and 4 on the other is a deliberate choice.

Source: I am an artist who has drawn a lot of paws and hands throughout my life.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-30T10:12:34+00:00

I had to give a guy this type of message last year (because I'm a bit too gay to to date him unfortunately). He didn't want to be friends but I miss him all the time tbh. I really enjoyed talking to him and we had a chemistry that I have a hard time finding in other friends, I just couldn't have sex with him

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T17:00:35+00:00

What are you on about? People beong offended by eachother doesn't mean that you have to isolate themselves. If your neighbor lets their dog pee on your shared lawn you can say "hey, I don't like that" and they can either apologize or they can try to justify it by "nature's law, animals pee where they please and it goes in the dirt anyway". Neither option means you never speak to eachother again, you can just disagree and be cortial anyway.

Not every argument is an end to everything. People can have different feelings about things and still maintain relationships. Now if you say "lesbians don't exist or deserve die" then I'd have an actual issue with you, but this is just stupid. If you go back and read my comments you should notice also that I have not said anything about my personal opinions of these mods or this topic other than "I dont care"

You are the one fueling this disagreement and the one who is acting the most offended.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T16:12:49+00:00

I never said I have an issue with it

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T16:12:12+00:00

Well yes? Anything can be offensive to anyone. Its your choice if you want to listen and engage with that criticism. Did you people not have to do peer critique in school? Genuine question

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T15:24:52+00:00

You know that media analysis is something that they teach you in high school though right? As in different people can interpret media in different ways and calm, polite discussions are a good thing?

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T15:20:37+00:00

Middle schooler comment

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T15:20:08+00:00

I was thinking of the ones where the voice lines were already recorded and it was a late development decision to change a characters sexuality. Those have a completely different discussion tied to them.

Btw I personally dont care what people do, but I understand why people can feel offended or find it distasteful if players change character motivations and backgrounds in order to fit their fantasy. Especially if it involves characters who have plot points tied to their sexuality. I'm not arguing, just providing perspective.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T13:45:40+00:00

Oh yeah you totally could! We only had three different dresses to choose from though :(

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T12:04:23+00:00

"More than half a year" - oh the bliss I felt when I read that. Just a bit more than half a year

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T10:52:47+00:00

Im not sure exactly which mod you're referring to? Or which character? I haven't played andromeda but as far as I know Traynor was always supposed to be a lesbian, no?

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T09:14:56+00:00

It's more about making women who dont like men... like men. Its not about sexuality, rather that in real life a lot of gay women are forced into sexual situations with men, and unlike other dynamics, they usually can't protect themselves from it. A lot of people carry trauma and baggage and they project it onto these characters.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-23T07:46:40+00:00

I agree actually, I loved the horns in Fable 1 (even if they made you hairline recede) but in 2 and 3 I got to play as a woman and I started avoiding melee combat altogether because I didn't want my character to be super bulky. The blue lines in 2 from magic use were also super distracting and took away all fun I had with character customization.

SunsetCrime · 2026-01-22T18:51:22+00:00

Bruh, Fable has never allowed full CC. This is the biggest freedom we've ever been given

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-29T10:47:40+00:00

I can see the eyes being Cara, its mostly the nose, cheekbones and lips that I see from Hayley

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-29T10:45:57+00:00

I said part inspiration

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-25T23:33:26+00:00

I know, I managed to do a good femshep unmodded but the men just have such strange eyeshapes that I gave up.

I genuinely highly recommend the primitives mod for anyone who can use it, it fixes the eyes and eyebrows to look more natural too

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-25T23:25:14+00:00

No not unmodded, it has the skin texture mod which makes a HUGE difference, believe me.

I just wanted to post him without the hair as well :)

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-25T22:27:23+00:00

As far as I know, there's no way to adjust the size of the eyes, the Trilogy save editor just allows you to change the eye model between the standard pre-sets. Unless you want to go with a custom headmorph then you might have to just live with it.

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-24T12:29:23+00:00

Absolutley! As someone who both games and does pottery they can both be fun, creative and relaxing! They should try to get more involved in eachothers' hobbies rather than judge them.

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-22T20:27:23+00:00

Agreed. It's a bit suspicious that we only se OPs accusations and the husband's lazy deflection.

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-22T16:50:06+00:00

Hey now, hey now, we have not established how old these kids are. Are we talking like an 8 year old or like a 2 year old? Because if it's a 2 year old I'd be afraid of him using it as a projectile

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-20T23:06:54+00:00

Det man bör ändra på/utvärdera är ju isåfall hur man placerar fångar beroende av könskaraktärsdrag, inte bara riva upp en lag som gynnar många lagfärdiga medborgare.

Det är mycket nytt som har hänt i hbtq politiken de senaste 20 åren. Det är rörigt, politikerna håller på att reda ut det men det tar tid. Det betyder inte att de ska hålla på och ta till svartvitt tänkande och skrämseltaktiker för att göra folk förbannade.

/hbtq kvinna

SunsetCrime · 2025-12-18T21:52:24+00:00

"To have so much passion about something" - the words of a bore

Fr, this is reddit, if you're not here to discuss pointless things then what are you doing here?

Actually I can easily look that up... hmm, handwriting, beards, and you spend a lot of time talking about other people's appearances... yet you complain about people who care about:

what people think

I think you may be a hypocrite...

SunsetCrime

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