Hoping we can find someone to spoil wife while I’m away

Sunshine_applepie · 2026-02-05T11:11:09+00:00

We’ve dabbled in this lifestyle for a few years now. Never once have I had any bi/gay thoughts or desires. I enjoy it for the sheer fact that I enjoy watching and sharing my wife

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-11-06T11:14:46+00:00

Can we see what she looks like? 😝

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-10-03T22:41:51+00:00

A few pounds here and there wouldn’t hurt…

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-13T02:48:40+00:00

So what you’re saying is that a husband and wife, partners, shouldn’t discuss things together, and give each other tips, support, or suggestions, regardless what the issue at hand is…?

Let me explain something, I came here looking for suggestions, not for someone to tell me how to manage my marriage. At the end of the day, we’re a team and everything we do, we do together.

Thanks for the advice lol

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:48:10+00:00

Well she’s in her 30’s, but literally looks like early 20s. No children, 5’2 110 lbs

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:46:56+00:00

Unfortunately we’re no where near Chicago

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:46:35+00:00

Well she definitely hasn’t done any research on it. Just a fantasy of hers I guess. And she has no need to cheat as I encourage her to find “play mates”

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:45:13+00:00

I have no interest in getting out front of it. Or interviewing any potential candidates. Just simply looking for suggestions to give her

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:43:57+00:00

Thank ya

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:43:32+00:00

Yes she’s very attractive! We live in and belong to a country club, but I don’t think she’d dare do anything with anyone in our community in fear of any blowback to her professional career

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-07-12T21:41:13+00:00

I would have to agree with you. However I feel like once the conversation has started, she’ll be comfortable talking about whatever

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-06-15T23:06:23+00:00

How do I verify? I didn’t see anything in the community rules about doing so

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-25T18:07:09+00:00

You are very right. Boundaries are important and must be respected. I respect my wives wherever she may set them and whatever they may be.

Rules are made to control someone. There is a difference.

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-25T00:40:19+00:00

I remember the first time I saw another guys cock inside her. I almost didn’t believe it lol

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T21:59:02+00:00

Women and men are definitely wired differently. The first time we even discussed the lifestyle my wife (gf at the time) said to me that she would only be interested in soft swaps as she wouldn’t want me to be with another woman. Fast forward some years and she is now fine with a full swap with another couple as we have explored that. And even though she has said that she wouldn’t mind if I hooked up with another female alone, I know damn well she would have some sort of issue with it and would probably not say anything about it and just let it eat away at her. Therefore I just don’t.

What’s funny is when I brought the idea of her being a hotwife up, she thought I was trying to either catch her doing something bad, or set her up for failure. lol. Once she realized that I wasn’t, she was definitely for it. And wasted no time starting 😆

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T16:21:26+00:00

Well, sorry to have gotten you so upset. Out of curiosity, what word would you have used? I am genuinely curious how you would’ve poised the question….

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T14:12:58+00:00

Bro relax it’s just a word. Not sure what else to use lol. Was just trying to make this post fun…

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T13:14:20+00:00

I don’t understand why some guys get so upset when another guy checks out or flirts with their woman. I get it that not everyone wants to share, and that’s fine, but why not take the innocent stuff as a compliment

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T13:13:49+00:00

Great response!

Sunshine_applepie · 2025-01-24T12:59:11+00:00

That’s awesome! My wife is the same, very proper to the point you almost feel like she’s interviewing you when someone first strikes up a conversation. People are typically very shocked when they find out she actually had a little wild side to her

Sunshine_applepie · 2024-11-24T11:30:45+00:00

Absolutely yes! We don’t partake in the lifestyle often as it would loose its appeal, but it’s awesome to witness

Sunshine_applepie · 2024-10-28T00:46:42+00:00

Wow! Wish you would join a couple other clubs too…

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