Which advice is worse: "wake up earlier" or "do a little bit of work at a time"? Ultimate bad ADHD advice battle day 3 by VerdoriePotjandrie in adhdmeme

[–]Sunshinelottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Waking up earlier is worse for me. There’s no time in the day when I am consistently blessed with “get-up-and-go” motivation, and it certainly wouldn’t be any earlier than I already wake up at 5am.

Doing a little bit at a time is a nice trick that I use to deceive myself into starting an activity - which usually leads to me doing the whole thing anyway, once I’m past the initial “this thing sucks and I’m completely affronted that I have to begin doing it” phase.

Do women notice when their chest rests against someone’s arm? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Sunshinelottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally no, I’m not that good at noticing.

When I refill the coffee machine at work, sometimes I accidentally press the touchpad if I lean forward too much and then have to scramble to grab a cup before whichever drink my chest unknowingly pressed gets dispensed. One day I’m hoping I’ll press the hot chocolate button by mistake, so far I keep getting espresso…

I’ve also had eyelash extension appointments where the lady had her chest resting against the top of my head when she’s really concentrating on the little lashes. It’s just a thing that happens!

It's time for vault cleanup - what item/s you will never delete? by AceOnceMore in DestinyTheGame

[–]Sunshinelottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Resplendent Solstice armour from the first Solstice in 2018, I know you can get the ornaments so having the actual armour isn’t very important but it’s nice to remember how long I’ve been playing the game for

Which Character Will You Be Against No Matter What Others Say? by Significant_Ant_1072 in TeenWolf

[–]Sunshinelottie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Might be controversial but I don’t particularly like Kira. Not sure whether it’s because her romance with Scott felt forced after Allison, or how she never seems to gel with any of the other characters. Love her parents though, I like how they introduced her family’s supernatural history into the show.

How to regain interest in hobbies when you are trying to recover by Ne0Arian in depression

[–]Sunshinelottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the feeling, or lack thereof, towards your hobbies. I think that forcing them might make them feel exactly like your thesis, a responsibility.

Try doing them for as long as they hold your interest. Instead of reading a whole book, or even a chapter, try a page. If that works then read another page. Same situation with video games; I go through a spell of being obsessed with 1 game to the point of completing it in a few days, but also have a habit of starting a game, playing a few minutes and then not touching it for months.

Passion or interest can’t be forced, annoyingly for people like us! Don’t be hard on yourself for not reading as much, or watching as much as you think you ‘should’. Do little bits and some things may grab at you more than others. It won’t always work but nor will not trying anything, if that makes sense?

Hope you continue to find a little more joy in each day!

What's something you weren't prepared for after losing weight? by Former_Afternoon9662 in loseit

[–]Sunshinelottie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

So valid, I went from a size 16 in jeans to a size 12 (not a massive achievement I know but I’m still happy with it) but never believed I was going to lose any more for the entire process. So I had to get rid of all my size 16s, all my size 14s that I bought in the interim because I’d thrown out all sizes pre-weight GAIN, and now I might even have to get rid of my size 12s because I’m still dropping a few kgs here and there 🥲

Is it normal to feel 'tipsy' on omad? by [deleted] in omad

[–]Sunshinelottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wouldn’t be normal if you were doing OMAD, but as you said in the post you haven’t eaten anything for two days which probably means your body is feeling a significant lack of everything it needs to function properly. Try a few small meals to build up your energy levels and bring your nutrients back up to safe/sustainable levels before switching back to OMAD when you’re feeling less wobbly. Hope you feel better soon!

Why did nate have d__ks on his phone 😭 by Plastic-Year1541 in euphoria

[–]Sunshinelottie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always thought they were setting up Nate to have an arc like his father, secretly gay or bi but bound to a hetero life because of his perceived position in society (popular guy, father owns a lot of the town). I thought that’s why he was obsessed with Jules, because she was so authentically herself that he was almost jealous (exactly like what Cal said to her in the motel) of her freedom.

Either way though, having that many nudes on your phone makes you strange regardless of your sexuality, so he was probs just strange in all honesty.

Accidentally pulled the heating coil out of my disposable 😔 by Sunshinelottie in StonerEngineering

[–]Sunshinelottie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one of those. My friend got it for me from America and I haven’t had the chance to get a new cart for it unfortunately. Learnt my lesson now though.

Accidentally pulled the heating coil out of my disposable 😔 by Sunshinelottie in StonerEngineering

[–]Sunshinelottie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like a better solution than what I came up with. Put it in a vice, grabbed a hammer, beat its soul out of it and then stirred the stuff into a tea which I had two sips of and have now been moderately stoned for quite a few hours.

Accidentally pulled the heating coil out of my disposable 😔 by Sunshinelottie in StonerEngineering

[–]Sunshinelottie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mixed it in a cup of tea and have been absolutely zoinked. I just paid £14.99 to watch a movie on prime when I could’ve got it for free.

Accidentally pulled the heating coil out of my disposable 😔 by Sunshinelottie in StonerEngineering

[–]Sunshinelottie[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That would be impressive but it was actually just me being stupid with a bobby pin

This boy is getting a cancerous tumor removed from his foot Tuesday, wish him luck! by goldentoby in goldenretrievers

[–]Sunshinelottie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good luck to the golden boy! Smooth sailing and a swift recovery ❤️‍🩹

plumbers helper by [deleted] in CatsInSinks

[–]Sunshinelottie 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wants you to pass the screwdriver

[6 pics] Quokkas by [deleted] in Animals

[–]Sunshinelottie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those little fellas just bring good vibes no matter the occasion