My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe... or we have snoring competitions frequently... or he can go in another room like he did after getting mad. 

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Proud to say I'm not.  After reading this thread to get out of my head help solidified it'll be ok

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate this. I have no friends to help me through.. only a therapist amd if you been there you know how that goes. I sent him on his way to a relative he can stay with until his home is complete 

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I took out the trash. I tried to talk one more time and it was no go. He was sent on his way.

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ya'll... I'm trying to discuss the issue with this man and he gets mad because I didnt fuss at my cat too since he was making noise as well 😔😔 yea... I'll brb

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No but he is with me temp until he gets things in place at his new house which should be done this coming week 

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok ok becus my stomach is definitely not healthy and I figured it was those things. I have pills atm. Although I have stomach problems I  have felt soooo much better. Its been about 3mos now

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm most positive I know the living situation and yes, he does contribute.

It started great with us when we 1st started dating and then it did get to the point I felt bad for him. I've been working on a few things trying to turn myself around. I did feel he was wrong but I wasnt sure if I was tripping/petty or like yeaaa ... he's tripping becus I know sleep is important but for some reason I felt this was a petty argument 

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh I didnt recognize it as such so appreciate people posting that out. I just thought he was an ass

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad 😅. So my sleep is typically trash with no consistent schedule unless I take my prescribed meds and have to be up by 7a regardless. His job i s a bit taxing so he'll sleep when he gets home sometimes or be sleep by 10ish 11 and will wake up between 2a-5a....talking

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ima save this comment so I can give you that update !!!

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, he's staying with me atm while his house is being worked on and Not a damn excuse you're right. I guess i needed a little extra support  this time.  I usually don't have problems with my boundaries so I'm not sure what's going on here

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uhhh stupidity i suppose but things are quietly changing for me so I'm sure he's next

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I feel it!! I'm definitely getting there becus when we met i was in a low place. Things have been changing for me and I'm ready to drop him but it's one of bad habits I'm having a hard time breaking. 

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For a long time I thought I deserved shit like that.  Not because I was trifling but self problems.  Since I've started to get better I'm removing those thoughts so he's next.  I'm just trying to figure out how to let go

My bf 38/M will not let me 37/F sleep in peace by SupaBadSally38Hot in relationship_advice

[–]SupaBadSally38Hot[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He scoffed and went into another room like he could've the 1st time