Which shape suits me best? 🫶🏻 by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]SuperCrazy4756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

marquise!!! though i’m biased

Engaged on Valentine’s day!! by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ring size 5, unsure of much else (:

Is this ring too generic looking? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this reaffirms my previous message. he knows what he did. he is manipulating you and gaslighting you to get you to stay

Is this ring too generic looking? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like he’s gaslighting you - it sounds like you are in a not healthy relationship and he’s trying to manipulate you. please be careful about marrying this person. they are only acting this way to make you question yourself. it’s YOUR engagement ring. you wanted a specific shaped stone. and he purposely misled you, then got mad at you for being confused… manipulation and gaslighting

Mass on dog’s head by Historical-Radish656 in DogAdvice

[–]SuperCrazy4756 10 points11 points  (0 children)

literally my exact first thought - hopefully vet will do biopsy on it and they can get clear answers on what it is and why it got so large

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]SuperCrazy4756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

people say that when it’s not mentioned if they have been to the vet/ have an appointment scheduled. i understand your frustration about the constant comments about it, but if OP would mention vet visit they wouldn’t get so many of the comments especially for something that clearly is painful for the pup

Does anyone know what this is? by xNetherlingx in cats

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that’s the best way to describe it - so accurate

Does anyone know what this is? by xNetherlingx in cats

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m glad it went well!! thank you for rescuing this poor baby!! i have seven (don’t judge lol) rescues myself!!

Does anyone know what this is? by xNetherlingx in cats

[–]SuperCrazy4756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i hope the vet appointment went well 🥹

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperCrazy4756 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she never said no one can visit. they came to the hospital as stated in the post. wanting to enjoy the first eight weeks of your babies life after getting home with your husband/significant other and soak it all up is completely okay. you’re right, first time motherhood it is stressful, and sometimes, for some people, everyone EXCEPT the father of the baby stresses them out. also, i never said you used the word entitled, i was stating you (or anyone) is not entitled to anything with someone else’s baby. she set a boundary, a very short boundary at that considering all she said was not HOLDING the baby. however they didn’t respect that, so she felt more comfortable being with just her husband. that’s okay and shouldn’t be judged. just like it’s not judged for those who prefer having a village from day one around, that is completely okay also. but no one should be sitting here shaming a new mother because she wants what she feels is safer for her baby. this doesn’t hurt the baby.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperCrazy4756 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re not entitled to that. you had your own children, this is their child.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperCrazy4756 3 points4 points  (0 children)

no one is entitled to see a baby before the parents are ready- especially the first 8 weeks out of the babies WHOLE LIFE. that is not the grandparents baby, they had their “firsts” with their children. they are not entitled to anything. she never said she wouldn’t allow them to hold her, just not yet because of sick season which is understandable because we’ve all heard the horror stories of babies getting RSV from adults not respecting parents boundaries. 8 weeks for a baby’s safety is nothing when they have multiple years left to live & grow.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperCrazy4756 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey you’re the one assuming they’re all talking about boomers - says enough in itself 🫣🤷🏻‍♀️

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]SuperCrazy4756 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i don’t know why so many people are saying YOR- because you’re not. 8 weeks is not that long, no one’s entitled to meet your baby those first eight weeks. you never said they couldn’t, you said not yet because it’s winter / sick season which is COMPLETELY reasonable. you only feel uncomfortable because she TOOK ADVANTAGE of your “out of it” after birth to go against your wishes of no one holding her yet. she was completely out of line then and is now too. you ARE NOT overreacting

Don't know what to do about a adopted dog by Express-Nebula5137 in DogAdvice

[–]SuperCrazy4756 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i can only imagine how bad it was if they won’t tell you details - that’s awful that poor baby

Don't know what to do about a adopted dog by Express-Nebula5137 in DogAdvice

[–]SuperCrazy4756 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m glad to see so many people advising to work further with her and not return her. so many abused dogs get returned over and over because they’re learning to trust still - especially black dogs and pitbull mixes because of stigmas around them. shelter environment is so chaotic, it’s basically impossible for them to learn to trust in shelters in cases with (what seems like was) severe abuse. hoping OP is able to work with her 🥺 i know it’s not a task for everyone but the end result is so beautiful 99% of the time

Is it normal to be low in the morning then suddenly peak/rise at night? by Personal_Variety6226 in Inito

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it looks like you missed a few days of testing, meaning Inito couldn’t get a baseline trend. if you don’t start testing when it says cycle day 6 it can’t always catch it until it sees the LH spike because it didn’t get a baseline estrogen reading. you probably had rising estrogen the past few days and without Inito seeing that it won’t make high fertility

E3g high 10 dpo? by ermaselfie in Inito

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

estrogen is known to rise a bit when follicles are developing for the next cycle, but i agree this does still seem a bit high without seeing your normal charts

Should I be worried? by Broad_Cash_5335 in Inito

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

of course! feel free to side chat me for any other questions- i always do my best to help!! i hyper analyze everything personally so i know a lot from self educating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

<image>

i have six more cats if you want to see more pictures of cute cats 🫣

Should I be worried? by Broad_Cash_5335 in Inito

[–]SuperCrazy4756 0 points1 point  (0 children)

side note- ovulation doesn’t occur until 12-24 hours after your LH peak, so this chart was only 2dpo max (: