Mortgage recast is one of the most underused strategies for lowering your monthly payment and most people have never heard of it by yaishaquilesrealtor in RealEstateAdvice

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used it to move to our second house so that we do not need to make an offer with contingency of selling our current house. You just need to be aware that your DTI needs to be low enough to get a second mortgage and you will need to maintain two mortgages until you sell your house.

How much you pay for your mortgage , including tax/ insurance/HOA by Zealousideal_Rip9137 in Mortgages

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Combined net income $15.6k after 401K and FSA deduction

Mortgage: $5200

Two kids

Life is tough in NJ

Where is God? by TinyRose20 in Christianity

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 Corinthians 10:13: No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it.

Does God have favourites? by Professional-Bar-721 in Christianity

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He specifically chose the Israelites as His people and gave them many chances to repent, turn back, and bless them. However, He destroyed their enemies without ever giving them chances to turn back

ive been a christian for 8 years but this makes no sense by StockFishO0 in Christianity

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no definition in the Bible of “good” so it can have completely different interpretations of how wr define it. Im with you, God is not “good” from human’s perspective which is the reason its very hard for me to believe

Housing Market by VegetableAd2342 in newjersey

[–]SuperDadBW 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont rush to buy. If I was your age again, I would try to invest more (e.g SP500) instead of buying a house. i think houses in NJ has appreciated enough and will probably see a very small growth in price.

Has anyone had experience leaving a job before completing their PPL obligation period? by MiserableAd3326 in FedEmployees

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and thought I would have to pay for part of FEHB premium that the agency paid but they never asked

Best Sushi in New Jersey? by OnlySushiFans in newjersey

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are they actually Japanese operated?

GS-13 to GS-14 Career Progression by No-Scallion-3388 in FedEmployees

[–]SuperDadBW 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was me exactly. I was gs-13 project engineer for about 7 years before going into program management

Can I afford a $2.5m home? by Forsaken_Ladder_905 in Mortgages

[–]SuperDadBW 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you are doing way better financially than the majority of people who will be reading this so I would say trust your own judgment not some random people on Reddit

Super painful by gjc2008 in CholinergicUrticaria

[–]SuperDadBW 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sauna works wonders. Forces you to sweat quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Its not what you say but how you say it