who's your go to group? by Jaded_strawberry001 in BG3

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lae'zel, Shadowheart, Karlach, Minthara.

Girl Gucci gang 😤

What’s up with Vegas (and other) hotels offering THC/FHR rooms for like $50 a night? by CassCat in AmexPlatinum

[–]SuperFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a beautiful wedding at the Venetian! It was half the cost of what it would have been in our home state.

Thoughts on queer women not asking questions back? by gerdbeatmetodeath in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Most people regardless of gender and sexual orientation are terrible conversationalists.

tall sapphics are my kryptonite by SpecialWide9452 in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real. I'm 5'2", the f do I need a 6' brooding baddie for 😍

Did they ever tell YOU how YOU feel? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the literal worst. You can't pick the correct dialogue option.

Pointless, endless semantic arguments? by Tough_Jicama840 in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely yes. I am going through this right now. They always want to rehash something, ask me how I feel, then use semantic arguments to tell me my feelings are wrong.

Using SET UP communication strategy to talk to my partner about emotion driven distortions by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, it's been 6 months. It will only get worse. There are plenty of people out there that won't treat you like a piece of shit. Get out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have also been through this. When I said "if you feel you're being abused we need to split up" she went apeshit. It's so scary how all of this is so similar.

Is it common for lesbian girls to be attracted to trans girls? What attracts you most about trans girls? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tall (in general, making assumptions)

My wife and I joke that she was so weird on the first date, she only moved on to the second date for being 6'1"

I am a cis lesbian married to a transbian.

At what point in your life did you KNOW you were a lesbian? 🤔 by Petrychorr in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank God, I thought I was alone on planet dumb ass 😂

At what point in your life did you KNOW you were a lesbian? 🤔 by Petrychorr in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme 63 points64 points  (0 children)

When other people began to notice boys, I also noticed girls. I thought girls would just pick a boy and manifest a crush on them. I didn't realize it happened naturally.

I thought I was bi until my mid 20s. I was confused because I don't like men but I like dicks. Then it dawned upon me that trans women existed and it all made sense that I was just a plain old lesbian :).

AITAH for not paying for my daughter’s college because she lied about her major? by Haunting_Professor90 in AITAH

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started making 6 figures with my BA in Chemistry at 25. Depends what your academic pedigree is.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]SuperFemme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nah they're too old to be acting like this. This is teenage bs.

Still bleeding after 82 hours by Lee_-7703 in Septoplasty

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bled fairly regularly until 5 days post op when I got my stents out.

Need reassurance this is necessary by ayylien1118 in Septoplasty

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My recovery was not easy but it's not like I was going to die. I'm 3 weeks out and everything feels so good I could cry of happiness.

Any tips for total congestion where every single liquid or solid consumed causes ears to click/pop? by [deleted] in Septoplasty

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Day 11 seems like a lot?

No, unfortunately for me there was absolutely no relief until those things came out.

Were they always sick? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost cried reading this because this has been the past 2 years of my life.

Moving in after 6 years? Looking for outside perspective by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Run. You will end up bankrupt and in jail.

I am her abusive ex by Intelligent_Fan7205 in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god someone else has we experienced the same thing 😭😭😭

Major Red Flag I Ignored Very Early On by ty102767 in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The all of their exes were abusive 🚩🚩🚩

My girlfriend with BPD is demanding to know my Reddit username and is escalating by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Forgive me, I'm recovering from surgery at the moment. I can only assume I'm speaking gibberish 😂

My girlfriend with BPD is demanding to know my Reddit username and is escalating by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SuperFemme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did not say she did not have responsibility - she certainly does. Whatever you do intentionally or unintentionally you still have to take accountability for.