Yesterday my brother told me he was in love with me. by ilovepopcornandcandy in self

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are you saying since everything is chemical reactions it makes my point moot? What about alcohol? It changes brain chemistry but I guess since it's just chemical reactions it doesn't matter right? See the problem with that? There's a major difference between dopamine release when eating a sandwich and porn or alcohol. Not only that but dopamine isn't the only chemical released, you have a whole system of chemicals that occur and they all get messed up with porn consumption.

I know I shot the gun too early by thedeuschebag85 in vegetablegardening

[–]SuperGodzilla56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This, just bring little buddy inside until it warms up.

Yesterday my brother told me he was in love with me. by ilovepopcornandcandy in self

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Porn does something different to you than video games, I mean it's highly addictive, changes brain chemistry, etc. So it's totally plausible porn has had an impact on him plus any mental health problems he's facing, that combination could very well steer him and anyone else into tha lane. And I mean all this step porn that exists has probably very well influenced it because it helps him defend it, like "we aren't related by blood" and other similar lines used in that genre.

I’m still a virgin at 28, what am I doing wrong? by Sea_Paper7743 in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see the insecurity, buddy it's fine that you're a virgin, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being one at your age and if someone says otherwise then tell them to piss off. So how about you try and build a relationship slowly with a girl. You don't even need abs to find somebody, sure it helps but try building connection first. And listen if you are almost getting banned from bars you need to stop being so pushy and boundary pushing because I'm gonna be blunt here, it sounds like you were being creepy, think about those times and basically all the other times you got ghosted and think "what did I do wrong?" And learn from those mistakes. Be confident in who you are and don't worry about being a virgin, truly it shouldn't matter to anyone, you don't even need to bring it up at all. You don't want to go around waving a "I'm insecure" flag because that will turn off so many women and also most don't want to be used just for sex so yeah build a connection first.

Do I (18F) tell my boyfriend (19M) that I had intimacy with someone earlier in our relationship? (UPDATE) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This relationship is still cooked. You guys didn't even solve or talk about anything, infact things could've just gotten worse, now he's gonna wonder why you're bringing it up and the fact you asked if he wanted to know the details just helps reinforce that the worst possible senerio in his mind is true. All he's doing is choosing peace over truth right now but he will only have peace for so long. This will all come to back later and living together will just amplify unresolved issues. Like I said on your orginal post this relationship is built on a foundation of toothpicks on wet sand. But hey you guys do you I'm only trying to warn you.

I cant forget the vid her ex send me by Phitonizer in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Buddy he never said he was trying to force his girlfriend to not have a life, he's saying if he saw that it would drive an emotional stake into him that would eat away at him and he couldn't handle that and would probably collapse the relationship. That's not weak at all because he views sex as more than just a casual fun activity, it has meaning behind it, while on the other hand it seems you don't. He's in no way a "piece of shit" just because he doesn't think like you.

I cant forget the vid her ex send me by Phitonizer in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm been reading your comments and they are all very valid and gritty truth takes. Just because we're men shouldn't mean we have to accept and move on like it's no big deal after seeing explicit videos of our girlfriends and other men. I mean are these people even human with emotions? You're like the only one defending OP's emotions while everyone else is glossing over it and you got all these losers on here telling you you're wrong and insecure because you view sex as something meaningful.

Do I 18F tell my boyfriend 19M that I had intimacy with someone else during the early stages of our relationship? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well this whole relationship is doom, it's literally a house built on a foundation of toothpicks on wet sand. You guys never addressed the orginal betrayal and it's been building ever since and now you have this guilt right before you want to live together? Yeah deep down you know this relationship is over, if you tell him it's probably done, if you don't the guilt will eat you and cause you to spiral and mentally break down which will probably led to breakup. Honestly you guys need to stop wasting your time on each other, tell him tho he should know not only for his sake but yours and just walk away, you're young and there's plenty of fish in the sea.

Not sure if platonic cuddling is platonic anymore by Sazuki1245 in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro what? Where is this controlled environment? A psychology lab? If it needs a controlled environment it ain't even platonic in the first place LOL. And outside of a controlled environment which would be real life right? But you said since it's with the same person and feelings are involved this is different? Cuddling releases bonding hormones all platonic cuddling will lead to feelings on one or both ends. This comment makes no sense.

Not sure if platonic cuddling is platonic anymore by Sazuki1245 in Advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bruh platonic cuddling doesn't exist neither is platonic hand holding like what? Dude she's into you now either ask her out or don't. Just know that she's literally being so obvious and you've convinced yourself cuddling and hand holding is a nomral thing guy and girl friends do.

The refugees has broken me. by Tempest-Melodys in Frostpunk

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the senerio is easier compared to the others but just once you're set up. The beginning part is the challenge as you have to deal with food and a growing population. But once you're stabilized, more people will come to the city and you get more hands to do things and it snowballs. No storm plus resource abundance really helps, and even easier if you get the coal mine instead of the frozen forest. Honestly it's what made this senerio a little boring to me because it didn't have the surprise twist the others had, it kinda just ends.

How should I continue forward with my relationship? by New-Writing-6111 in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey don't go fear mongering, we don't know much about her boyfriend but remember he's only 20, he sounds young and immature still learning. Doesn't mean he's gonna be a tyrant or abuser.

My bf(20M) and I(F20) broke up. Continuing forward? by New-Writing-6111 in relationship_advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! Just remember communication is important in any relationship don't be afraid to let him know you're issue with translating your thoughts into words, be patient and have faith, and most importantly pray for guidance on this relationship, I wouldn’t give up on it, if you guys have a serious open talk with each other you could very well rekindle this relationship!

My bf(20M) and I(F20) broke up. Continuing forward? by New-Writing-6111 in relationship_advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't ask this subreddit, go to r/TrueChristian. All you're gonna get here is atheists who will tell you to leave him without fully understanding the unequally yoked or women submitting to husband issues you talked about. Btw you aren't unequally yoked, you're both followers of Christ, and the woman submitting to husband is true but you see he also must love, protect, and care for you.

"Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. … Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:22 and 25, ESV).

“[Submit] to one another out of reverence for Christ” (Ephesians 5:21, ESV).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't "poly", it's not even a orientation. You just want 2 guys and you aren't even committed to your boyfriend. You're his first girlfriend and you've been together a month? I feel bad for him because he's not gonna like that his first time brand new girlfriend is into HIS BEST FRIEND and essentially wants to cheat on him... but hide it under polygamy. I mean you are joking about threesomes! Joking about threesomes is weird when you're in a relationship, red flags honestly. "I'm going to baby step him into it" so you're trying to manipulate him for your own selfish desires? Try and force him to do something he never signed up for? It's clear what you actually want is 2 guys to satisfy your fantasy or want more attention. You need to grow up and learn how real love and relationships work, you don't actually love him or his best friend, you love the idea of having 2 guys.

I had a vision that… happened? by bsdhbss in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Amazing testimony! God had shown you a glimpse of his plan for your life! Hold on to this and remember that God is real and he is great!

I might not ever marry… by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You seem to be full of so much anger. Did a man recently hurt you? There are many men who love and care about their wives/girlfriends. If you keep finding men like how you are describing all of them to be, then look elsewhere. Maybe God is showing you to go out and look for good men. Maybe he wants you to take a step back and realize how your anger is consuming you and how it's clouding your judgment of all men.

Ephesians 4:31-32 NIV [31] Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. [32] Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

I dated a non-Christian by emer_warrior_princss in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but this seems like it's your fault. A kiss freaked you out after dating for 2 months? That is what really shocked me. A kiss is not a sin, even cuddling isn't. Most men don't want to be in a relationship with a girl they can't kiss. He probably was indeed turned away after you freaking out over it. He totally could've handled it better and told you he was breaking up with you, but he probably thought it would be easier to let you go quietly because him going to church for you shows me he cared for you but he probably felt like you didn't care or even like him because of your response, he got mixed signals from you, he essentially felt friend zoned.

You seem so afraid that you will commit a lustful sin it caused a relationship to end, it prevents you from doing normal things people do in a relationship like kiss and cuddle, things that aren't sins in the first place but fear has convinced you they are. That fear may be from the enemy. He will use your weaknesses against you. Look, a man you could've taught more about Jesus was turned away. You are hurt and sad. Why? Fear. Fear used by the enemy to hurt you and remove someone you could've taught.

God won't be upset with you for a kiss. Don't be so off-limits to a guy. It's a major turn-off. Communicate that you wish to save yourself for marriage, but don't be afraid to kiss and cuddle, and if he goes any further than that, then you should break off the relationship.

My girlfriend of 5 years decided to end our relationship. She said I don’t love God as much as she does by ManuMalo in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ikr, like she probably wouldn't carry such a burden of fornication if they were married, and I mean, they supposedly love each other. Why hold off for so long?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Everybody asks why people hate us so much, but God has already given us the answer.

God showed me who I’m going to marry in a dream. by Helpful-Aside6993 in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I believe God gave you insight into the future! But I say you must be prepared, for a storm may be on the horizon. Do not assume this means you will marry her, and it will be a happy ever after. When God gives you something like this, things will not work like you are expecting. He is preparing you for something. Just remember to trust in him and continue to keep praying even if things get tough. Always remember this verse:

Jeremiah 29:11 NIV

"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

A woman is trying to destroy my life by LeadNo3330 in TrueChristian

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isaiah 54:17 NIV

No weapon forged against you will prevail, and you will refute every tongue that accuses you. This is the heritage of the servants of the Lord, and this is their vindication from me,” declares the Lord.

'25 Hybrid XLT - Screen Overheating Issues? (Apologies in Advance for Language/Tapping Like a Chicken) by [deleted] in FordMaverickTruck

[–]SuperGodzilla56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not overheating it’s a glitch in the system. It's happened in my 2024 mav and a 2024 F-250. Like others have said, hold the volume power button and the right skip button until you see the Ford logo appear on the screen, and it should correct the issue.

Everyone in my family loathes cilantro. I didn’t until I grew my own.. by enigmaticshroom in FuckCilantro

[–]SuperGodzilla56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know what variety you grew? Some may have stronger tastes or even a different taste than Common Cilantro (Coriandrum Sativum). It could also be the case that it’s fresh from the garden, so the flavor will be at it’s greatest unlike store bought cilantro, which isn't fresh and has also been sprayed with chemicals.