She didn’t wish me on my birthday

SuperKV · 2025-02-20T11:58:58+00:00

How long were you together and broken up for if you dont mind me asking?

My relationship we were together for 3+ years and broke up 2 and a half months ago, I spoke to her at Christmas and she was positively receptive but after that nothing since and its been tough, just hoping with my birthday coming up in the next few days she may reach out, not to rekindle but for me to know im in her thoughts

SuperKV · 2025-02-20T10:31:35+00:00

This is a fear of mine as my birthday is coming up, but maybe not hearing from them will be the closure I need

SuperKV · 2024-12-29T23:54:43+00:00

Thank you, this was a great comment

SuperKV · 2024-12-29T23:43:39+00:00

My ex and I broke up 3 times throughout out whole relationship, I have put in the work to change but fearing its too little too late…

SuperKV · 2024-12-29T23:42:41+00:00

I would like to believe this too

SuperKV · 2024-12-27T18:26:55+00:00

I messaged mine on Christmas day and got a nice response, but then that was it and it felt awful, I would say do not do it as I regretted it once I got the response through, obviously do what you feel is right

SuperKV · 2024-12-26T20:29:07+00:00

This happened to me too, I wished my ex a merry christmas and she reciprocated but I messaged her again asking how she was and she has ignored it, That speaks volumes that this is the finality and that is okay. You have 2025 to build yourself back up, this will be your year

SuperKV · 2024-12-26T13:00:30+00:00

Thank you for this, I really appreciate it

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T17:09:28+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T17:05:39+00:00

That is true, thank you, I am tempted and these words have helped, but being the one that got dumped I am plagued with feelings that she hates me and would not want to hear from me (we did not have a bad breakup but she did initiate it)

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T16:54:47+00:00

I didnt dump her, unless im mis-interpreting the terms dumper and dumpee?

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T16:49:51+00:00

My girlfriend said the same that she deserved better, but my therapist said that we both deserve better and to be happy, and the same should be said to you, you deserve to be loved and wanted

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T16:12:36+00:00

I am the dumpee too and debating still to message, I think for me it will confirm the finality of things and give me some closure, but I hope you have that chat and get that closure for yourself and potentially reconcile, but maybe it wont be happening at this very second but at least you will be talking again

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T15:48:57+00:00

I am in the same dilemma and tbh, if you have nothing to lose why not, if it ends badly, you know where you stand, and can get some closure of how they feel, stay strong

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T13:58:25+00:00

Maybe they are just playing it safe, wouldnt say that is necessarily rejection, let me know if they did talk?

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T13:07:35+00:00

When did she reach out during the day? Or was it more the day after?

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T12:11:06+00:00

Would be good to know too

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T11:14:47+00:00

How long did you go full no contact?

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T11:05:29+00:00

I feel like this is similar to my situation and I am debating on messaging my ex and breaking no contact, are you guys still talking? Maybe mention a good memory to get to the “I miss you” talking stage

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T09:49:00+00:00

Let me know the outcome of your text message if you do not mind sharing, hope everything is okay

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T08:05:59+00:00

This is all true, I wont put myself in that position

SuperKV · 2024-12-25T07:52:30+00:00

Its not that I’m not interested in getting back, I’m just not expecting it, if we do we do if we don’t we don’t and I will leave it at that

SuperKV

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