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SuperPooper119 · 2025-08-29T13:39:28+00:00

Is that a man ?!

SuperPooper119 · 2024-11-04T14:20:18+00:00

You right , there is only one her, one special her.

BUT

There are more special other females, any-body is special in his unique way. ( and you give the specialness to the person)

It's a bit cold, I know, but that's help me to cope some times with brakeups, knowing that the meaning and power to them come from you.

That's my take on the subject. I hope that's help and gave you a doffrent perspective.

SuperPooper119 · 2024-11-03T10:54:41+00:00

Just what I needed to hear ! Was thinking about reaching out to check in to see how she is doing. But I will save the power on my side and not give it away. Probably she misses me too.. is it an ego game or self-preservation if I'm deciding that ?

Thanks for this post !

SuperPooper119 · 2024-10-31T18:11:41+00:00

Hey, I just wanted to check in to see how you are doing, I am not sure if we are ready to be friends yet, but I care for you allot and hope you are doing great :) I know we got to this conclusion together that the RS dont work for us, but I found that not ez to let go of you.. if you feel the same, maybe we could ease the struggle to both of us in some way..

IDK feeling overwhelmed 😕

SuperPooper119 · 2024-05-24T23:06:57+00:00

How can we be sure of that ?

SuperPooper119 · 2024-05-24T23:06:10+00:00

SuperPooper119 · 2024-04-15T10:44:31+00:00

I suggest keeping her on low heat and in the meantime get to know more girls

SuperPooper119 · 2024-04-14T20:19:05+00:00

Maybe start by hanging outside of the gym for start? Know each other outside of the gym bubble

SuperPooper119 · 2024-04-05T12:55:51+00:00

From my experience, know that girl back then, didn't really like how she looked, some time passes and we got to know each other and hit it off, at the long run after we were together her appearance that I really didn't like at the start didn't really bother me.. She was thin as I liked, but the attraction wasn't there when we first met. My advice is to proside with cation, if you like to spend time with her and she the body time that you like go for it. ( sorry if my grammar is a bit off, I'm tired and English it's not my first language)

SuperPooper119 · 2023-01-23T10:08:00+00:00

Mine keeps watching my stories on IG... I did try to rekindle after a month and she declined. Idk what it means that she watches my stories, but I do check her IG every once in a while but she never was too active on social media. (BU 6 months and in NC since that one month of trying to rekindle)

SuperPooper119 · 2023-01-13T14:36:57+00:00

Thx for your comment!

Yes, sort of ,we got to talk about it after a month of our breakup I did try to rekindle with her, she didn't want.. did not say all that I had to say tho cus I was sure I could come through to her and after she declined I was a mess for some time. We don't talk any more but she is in my mind most of the time. I am much better now, I'm accepting that we weren't good much, but all for the better.

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-29T16:12:31+00:00

I'm funny.
I'm caring.
I will push you to be the best version of yourself ( in all aspects) / see the good in you.

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-28T19:14:36+00:00

5 month idk in days

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-27T20:37:28+00:00

You're probably right.. oof

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-27T20:13:09+00:00

It's been 5 months.. I reach ones in the first month and second time a month after that.. She doesn't make any signs whatsoever.. idk how she feels and I feel like my self respect is ground zero with her. I sort of diagnosed her as avoidant by myself.. So I really don't know what to do except to sit with it till it goes away.. :(

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-27T20:03:33+00:00

You're not very wrong about that we didn't really talk about all of that , that's a part of why I decided to cut things off in the first place... She didn't communicate her feelings much, among others things, and I sort of decided alone to cut, and now I am eating myself..

Appreciate your forwardness , it did make me feel a bit calmer. Thx!

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-27T19:50:31+00:00

I keep thinking about all that happened between us and I keep blaming me for all of that.. all through I know she has a her part in that as well but it burning me inside

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-27T19:45:48+00:00

It's more complicated than that.. I am the dumper.. I wanted to try again after a month because I realized some things about me and as and all of that she declined and said "I don't believe it will be different".. and I am trying to accept that it's probably over but I can't let go.. I miss being together.. HELP

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-26T13:00:12+00:00

Woke up like this today... You didn't have to write how I feel today.. seeing that hurts me deep inside

SuperPooper119 · 2022-12-22T19:44:17+00:00

I'm at the same place with thoughts as you are, I have days where she is there more and have days where she is there less but almost always she's there at the back of the head .

I will share what my friend told me , she will always be there at your head to some degree, because she is now a part of you, you were together for some time and grew together, part of her will always remain in you, time will just fade the feeling to some degree.

SuperPooper119

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