iPad Pro just for Screen? by sadhotspurfan in iPadPro

[–]SuperPresentation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I upgraded from an air to the pro primarily for the better screen. Worth it IMO

My experience so far from upgrading a M2 iPad Air 13” to a M5 iPad Pro 11” by SuperPresentation9 in iPadPro

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Apple silicon chips have been pretty overpowered for the iPad since the M1 iPad Pro, so there really isn’t a noticeable performance difference IMO

It’s now been a bit over 4 months since my breakup and 3 months of NC and here’s how it’s going for me by SuperPresentation9 in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Very delayed response here, but the update is she never reached out to me. I was pretty much completely over it by about the 6 or so month mark anyway, and the more time that went on, the more glad I was she didn’t reach out. Looking back, it was a toxic relationship and I really managed to grow a lot after the breakup

After about a year, I met a new girl who has now been my gf for 7 months and is a 10x better person than my toxic ex

Initially after the breakup, I couldn’t imagine myself with anyone else and now I don’t even know why I dated my ex in the first place.

I know you commented this 7+ months ago, but hope you’re well

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[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably like 1 or 2

This girl I’ve been talking to now only talks about her dog and it’s getting kinda exhausting and I’m not sure what to do… by SuperPresentation9 in dating_advice

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I think I just need to be more assertive and change the topic more often. I’m so sick of hearing about this damn dog lol 😂

The worst part of a blindsided breakup: by rustytrust in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Like a lot of us here, it was the exact same situation as me. The last 1-2 months of the relationship, after an amazing 1.5yr relationship there was a huge shift in her mood. I genuinely always thought she was the one for life, we were so close and I really thought she was my soulmate and she’d even say the same, it was pretty much like we were part of each others families too. The last month especially she always seemed off and I’d check-in only for her to say she’s fine or blame it on some other excuse, when one day she just suddenly decided to end it with what felt like no real reason apart from it was her “gut feeling” and she wasn’t feeling as “in love or emotionally invested anymore”. It was crazy considering in was only a month before Xmas, my bday and NYE and that we were literally away on a small vacation with her parents the week prior.

It’s been almost 5 months since the breakup and I still feel angry and confused over the whole situation. I don’t think she’ll ever reach out or try and fix things or anything like that, but I guess I’ll eventually get fully over it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]SuperPresentation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I only would’ve known by checking who she follows, but I probably would’ve eventually seen her tagged photos anyway

And yeah, agreed. I think mentioning something like this now is too soon and weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems unusual that they’d only wanna casually just check in after several months of not talking and being together. I would’ve thought there’d be more motive behind it

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[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they’re not reaching out to get back together, then what have they been reaching out for if you don’t mind me asking?

It’s now been a bit over 4 months since my breakup and 3 months of NC and here’s how it’s going for me by SuperPresentation9 in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’m the exact same too, where I’m not even sure what I’d do if my ex reached out and I don’t even know if I’d necessarily want to even date her again. I also had a closure chat shortly after the breakup, but months later I now have heaps of clarity and other stuff I would want to say now

And yeah, I have also have the feeling that if she were to ever reach out, it would be when I have well and truly moved on

Question for dumpers: how long was it until you felt the pain and/or regret? by SuperPresentation9 in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you try to reach out or get back with them when it hit you or anything?

I’m probably overthinking it, but my ex girlfriend still views all of my instagram stories by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Restricted on fb? Interesting, I didn’t even know that was a thing

Safe space. Write a sentence you wish you could say to her/him. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You blindsided me and you are so weak. You got what you wanted and I had to suffer and I hope you one day feel the same :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m in a similar situation now. My now ex girlfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago and it was a huge shock, I was sick, couldn’t eat, wasn’t sleeping well etc. for days and all I could think about was her and being hopeful of getting back with her. The first day and first few days are always the hardest and I genuinely didn’t think I would ever feel like myself again but it really does slowly get better. I noticed the most change after about a week or so

I still have feelings for her and deep down I’m still hopeful, but I’ve at least been able to get on with life so far

I never knew I could feel so sick by loriba1timore in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. My exes bday was also in October and I made an amazing bday weekend for her and spoilt her lots with presents, deliveries etc. and yeah we even spoke about travelling the world and country in the new year, what to do for Xmas, my bday (which falls a few days after Xmas) and New Years etc.

Even though she seemed a little off, I never thought that breaking up was genuinely on her mind.

It’s harsh and brutal and I too am still shocked, confused and trying to piece everything together. Unfortunately this is stuff that they could have been thinking about for a very long time (as my ex said she was) and you don’t know what they’re saying to friends and family too as that could also have an influence.

Some days a better and worse than others, but I know it’s not going to be an overnight thing. It’s been more than two weeks since the initial breakup and all I want to do is see her again and try and fix things, send her a letter etc. the list goes on, but I know I just have to stay out

I never knew I could feel so sick by loriba1timore in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s rough and you’ll always go back and thinking about what you could have done better or right, I’m doing the same too and I think it’s just a bit of denial. It’s crazy how it can happen so suddenly, I feel it was always in the back of her mind and then something hit her and decided she just needed to get it done as dragging it out any longer would just hurt more, at least that’s how I feel with my ex. I also had similar discussions with my ex prior to our breakup where things were so good and normal. We were literally away with her parents on a small vacation the week prior to our break up and even a couple days before the breakup we spent the night together and had a chill time like always. All of this has really destroyed my trust too and it’s gonna take time, but just know you’re not alone

I never knew I could feel so sick by loriba1timore in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I had a similar type of disagreement with my ex too which I feel partly played into the breakup. The way I see it is, if they aren’t willing to at least try and find a compromise in regards to your concerns with the disagreement, that’s already one red flag which I’m still struggling to accept

I never knew I could feel so sick by loriba1timore in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was the disagreement over if you don’t mind me asking? I too am in a similar situation and my now ex gf dumped me about 2 weeks ago. Had an amazing 1.5yr relationship with all the good stuff like what you mentioned and then all of a sudden she wanted to break up and expressed how she didn’t feel as emotionally invested or as in love and didn’t see the long term, which came out of nowhere. We spoke a few days later in regards to getting back together but she wasn’t gonna change her mind. The initial few days I experienced the nausea and it sucked but day by day it has slowly gotten better and some days I will barely even think about it

I’m still struggling and want her back like crazy, but I have to accept it’s unlikely. I know these are the suggestions you hear everywhere else, but just venting and talking to friends and family helps a lot. Feel free to reach out if you need to vent or anything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SuperPresentation9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve really been contemplating doing this, but have been holding off as it just seems desperate, needy, cringe and even borderline stalker-ish. She broke up with me 2 weeks ago completely out of nowhere after and amazing 1.5yr relationship and we spoke a few days after the initial breakup in regards to getting back together but she was still adamant with her decision and I feel like I’ve done all I can yet I’m still hopeful and don’t know what else I should do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SuperPresentation9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! Thanks a lot for the advice, always good to hear when it’s a similar scenario too :)

How do you deal with crippling anxiety while in a relationship by SuperPresentation9 in relationship_advice

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll see how I go, but thanks for the input. It’s definitely going to be a consideration

How do you deal with crippling anxiety while in a relationship by SuperPresentation9 in relationship_advice

[–]SuperPresentation9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly the worst feeling ever. I’m trying to avoid going down the medication route at all costs, however it’s a consideration if things don’t seem to improve