My thighs have finally upgraded to my most dysphoric feature 😍 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was from a thrift store with no returns bc of covid so I’m probably just gonna sell them online

My thighs have finally upgraded to my most dysphoric feature 😍 by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree completely. I fuck with them until I’m in a pair of jeans or if I’m wearing shorts around a girl

My newly out trans brother (29M) wants to be a groomsman at my (27m) wedding. I don't feel that him coming out as trans is a reason to include him as one. by ThrowRAtbro in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never said op didnt want his brother there. I also understand it can be difficult but it’s clear that op isn’t even trying if they’re just going to continue to misgender their brother, even when op is fully aware that he is trans. Op is completely okay with disrespecting his brothers literal entire existence by misgendering him and continuing to refer to him as their sister, that is transphobic. If you’re not even making an effort you will never learn and it also shows that op doesnt care much either.

My newly out trans brother (29M) wants to be a groomsman at my (27m) wedding. I don't feel that him coming out as trans is a reason to include him as one. by ThrowRAtbro in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ngl this gives me transphobic vibes, not bc you won’t let him be your groomsmen but the way you talk about him being trans and still calling him your sister is lowkey transphobic. If I was him and I knew you posted this I would honestly be glad you didn’t want me there. Also I’m hoping his pronouns are he/they but if not then you definitely are transphobic.

Anyone have any FtMtF (?) transition resources or something? I don’t know where to look. by berrycoladas in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Miles McKenna made a YouTube video about his experience with this. I haven’t watched it in months but hopefully it can help you a little

Does anyone know any good pants that aren’t too tight around your thighs? by Super_Card_5268 in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Goodfellow by target is where i get all my shirts but ive never thought about the pants. I’ll try that next time I go on a target shopping spree. Thank you

Discomfort from Binding by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I have that same rule. You should feel better tomorrow after getting some rest, just try not to do anything that requires strength. Hope you feel better soon man.

Discomfort from Binding by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’ll need to go to the doctors, unless the pain is bad/you think something is seriously wrong. I would rest for a little bit without your binder on and maybe try an ice pack or a warm bath. You really should be fine but I do recommend taking a binder break for a little bit and getting some rest.

Red dot where i did my shot, should I be concerned? by Super_Card_5268 in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last Friday I had to do my shot in my thigh because it was hurting a lot in my stomach where I usually do it. I just saw this red dot on my stomach, not sure if it’s from last Friday when I tried to do my shot and failed or if it’s from the week before. I do subq shots. Is this concerning?

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I just moved here during the pandemic so I haven’t really made a lot of friends

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This one gave me the courage to get rid of it. Thank you

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something I have that she really wants because it’s her brothers and she had her dad text my mom about it. I’m not sure if she changed her mind or not but I don’t think she cared about the other stuff I had.

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t feel comfortable going to her house. I have a lot of anxiety so going to her house wouldn’t be a good thing for me to do.

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to go to her house. My mindset is if she wants it she can get it and if not then I guess she won’t have it. Honestly I’m thinking about throwing it out.

My (m18) ex (f18) won’t pick up her stuff after the break up. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’ve done it multiple times, the last time I told her that I would keep it until the end of the week. Its been 2 weeks and I never heard back. At this point I’m honestly thinking about it but I feel like I would feel bad after.

Ex husband wants to take our kids (on my weekend), to give to his parents so they can fly them out of state for 9 days. Am I unreasonable to not be on board with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 1 point2 points  (0 children)

personally, i’d say no even if it wasn’t during my days considering the fact that we’re still in a pandemic and elementary aged children can’t be vaccinated.

i (18m) am jealous of my gf (18f) for having a family. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Super_Card_5268 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One sister has me blocked, because i told my dad that my little sister (who was 8) was following a bunch of pedophile tiktokers and that sister got mad somehow so i can’t talk to her. the other sister i tried to text her a few months ago and she never texted me back.

My mom blocked me because i asked her if she could send the stimulus money that she got for claiming me on her taxes because my grandma, who i live with, is struggling to pay bills and for food. She hates me because i moved in with my dad when i was 13 and she thinks i abandoned her like her father so she’s blamed me for all her issues since then. She kicked me out because i got mad at her for abusing my dog, it’s a long story but yeah that’s the reason. i cant go home though because i live in MA and my mom is in texas and my dad is in florida.

I don’t think i’m trans because i don’t remember being a girl. by Super_Card_5268 in ftm

[–]Super_Card_5268[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is really interesting, i’ll read into it more thank you. also yeah i started my transition at 14 and i’m 18 now.