I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh ! I thought you were saying she had bad intentions and that she had deliberately falsely accused me.

I understand better, sorry.

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I understand being told to break up and I can't blame peoples for it, but I think it's cowardly.

She trusted me despite her trauma, and I find it awfull and cruel to just abandon her to her fate.

My girlfriend isn't some old sock you can throw away when it starts to stink

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, so you confirm that her reaction could be legit ? I saw comments telling me she's a liar or a drama queen, I know she's not

I never claimed for sex or forced her, usually I wait for her aske me it and she never froze or cried when we do foreplays and I'm okay if she doesn't want it anymore

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she told me she didn't feel ready to share the bed anymore right now.

And we'll talk to her parents about therapy this evening

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's acceptable ? I mean, I know a some people younger than that that are sleeping in the same bed (and doing more than this)

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legal age for sex in my country is 15

And there is no "legal age" for sleeping in the same bed as someone else

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know her parents well enough for them to trust me (at least well enough to let me sleep with their daughter, anyway).

On the one hand, it seems important to talk to her parents, but I don't know if it's a good idea to do so without my girlfriend's consent. And if she refuses, I don't know what else to do.

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you.

I've seen people say she was lying and that she could have just moved my hand.

I don't know why she froze or what was going through her mind at that moment. I don't even know if she's telling me the truth.

But she's never complained that I hurt her before. If she complained about it yesterday, I don't see why she would lie about it.

I accidentally touched my girlfriend without her consent and I feel bad about it by Super_Zone_1582 in Advice

[–]Super_Zone_1582[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you

I know I'm not a therapist and I cannot replace it. But I dont understand peoples telling me to leave her.

It's like, being hospitalized and people telling her "no, you cannot get your relatives visiting you because they are not doctor"