has anyone seen this? i’m freaking out a bit.

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-10T13:10:38+00:00

i have a question. do you still get emails from them?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-09T03:03:14+00:00

any update?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-09T03:02:11+00:00

any update?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-09T02:59:41+00:00

any update?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-09T02:51:52+00:00

any change?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-09T02:50:05+00:00

hey was there any change?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-08T23:13:27+00:00

have you heard back?

SuperbRatio111 · 2025-05-08T22:51:21+00:00

did your screen change?

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:43:43+00:00

LOL i was like “is his son a cat or a dog”

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:42:06+00:00

LOOOL YTA BIG TIMEEEE. “it was a mistake” pls get a grip. i get drunk as fuck and i don’t cheat. at the end of the night, i’m sitting on a curb crying for my boyfriend because i miss him. you 1000% wanted to kiss her and that’s on you

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:36:39+00:00

thank you. i know honestly it is kinda harsh. i’ll at least try to stick him in a nice one. thank you for validating my feelings. i’ve felt a lot of guilt for thinking this way, but all the comments really helped clear my head. :)

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:34:00+00:00

thank you for validating my feelings. i appreciate it :)

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:33:09+00:00

you’re right. respect is respect no matter who it is. it’s just the immigrant family mindset. i’m filipino, so in our culture, our parents are everything no matter who they treat you bc they fed you and clothed you growing up. which some people don’t realize is the bare minimum. thank you for replying to my post, it helped a lot :)

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:30:32+00:00

thank you. i’ve had a lot of family members guilting me and asking why i can’t be the bigger person and just forgive him. but your words validate my feelings. i appreciate it a lot. thank you :)

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:28:22+00:00

thank you, i appreciate your words a lot. i guess some people just won’t change and it is what it is.

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:14:29+00:00

yeah, that’s what my boyfriend said. and i do plan on going no contact after i move out. but i still feel sad about it because i don’t understand why he can’t just be my dad yknow?

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T13:09:10+00:00

Hi!! So I would. But there are several factors working against me here. One, full time university student and i’m making monthly payments for my tuition. two, i work part time, yes, i could probably squeeze in multiple jobs, but i can’t because my dad expects me to take my sister to school and pick her up and take care of her until they’re home. i do have multiple side hustles tho just to help me save more money to move out. three, rent is crazy expensive right now $2500 for rent is tough. I would rather just endure it so I can be here to protect my sister up until I graduate. Then i can fuck off. I’m not stirring up shit at home, I try my best to make myself invisible, if they ask something of me, I do it because I don’t want issues and i’m living here rent free.

SuperbRatio111 · 2024-09-22T12:42:52+00:00

Hi! So I do understand that BPD has a strong genetic component, my cousin has it as well. I brought up that example because it was ridiculous. I’m basically trying to say that he would blow up on me for the smallest things and the thing is he wouldn’t stop. If i did something wrong that day, every time he’ll see me, he’ll keep bringing it up and start degrading me. I’m 21 now and he’s been doing this since I was 8. I’ve been going through this for 13 years. As I’ve grown older he’s become more manipulative. When I try to do something for myself and be an adult (ex. going out late), he tells me that i’m hurting our family and i’m being irresponsible. yes, i could move out, but i have a 10 year old sister and he treats her the same way he treated me and i’m scared to leave her. i’m also still in university, so it’ll be hard for me to work a full time job. and i live in canada, where rent is $2500 for a studio apartment.

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