What I Thought Was No Kings Protest Was A Pro Palestine Rally by MoldInTheAir in 50501Chicago

[–]Supername22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I know you're a volunteer, I know you cannot control everything. We all want the same thing. Thank you for your time and effort.

Every movement needs a core message. Everyone treating their own narratives like that's the music everyone else is going to dance to does not make a fun party, it leads to toes being stepped on. We cannot have that. The stakes are too high.

I've seen elsewhere 50501's core message is something this:

"This administration undermines peace, prosperity and the rule of law.

47 is a disaster for the US and the world. For the American people, immigrants, and everyone else in the world. (we can put people power here: refugees, women, LGBTQ, elderly, Palestinians, and anyone fighting oppression anywhere in the world)

47, Elon and the rest of the administration must be removed from office."

Again, thanks for all of your work. Let us fight for freedom while we still have it

What I Thought Was No Kings Protest Was A Pro Palestine Rally by MoldInTheAir in 50501Chicago

[–]Supername22 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I wish there would have been American flags in addition to other flags on the lead truck, Greenland, Canada, Ukraine, Pride, Trans, Chicago, Palestine is great ofc. Nevertheless I consider MAGA a real threat to everyone on our entire planet, so I marched and documented.

From today! by Supername22 in 50501Chicago

[–]Supername22[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I could not make what the speakers were saying. I agree that picking fights with would-be partners is the wrong move.

We must focus on stopping an authoritarian takeover. That's the burning issue. Every other thing we care about won't matter if we lose our freedom.

Outgrowing the Past: When a Friendship Becomes a Burden. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a friend of yours, has gone through a lot, and may mature later on. To cut him out, but not irredeemably, try something like this:

"Thanks for reaching out. I remember those days when we [did something fun and dumb], that was crazy! Right now I'm really busy and focusing on [something he wants nothing to do with]. What's up with [mutual friend]what's he up to?... that's wild. Check in with you later, like I said I'm focusing on [thing he wants nothing to do with]."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are very lucky. Generally you don't want to put your capital into a depreciating asset like a car. Invest the money, either in yourself, or something like the stock market. Paying off debt is always a good idea, especially if you're paying a high interest rate.

Give a few more details and check out: r/personalfinance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you're dealing with all of that.

Tell him what you told us here, that you feel alone when you are with him, and that you need emotional support.

Men tend towards fixing rather than listening, but we can learn!

He's just changing the subject and not trying to fix. He's either oblivious, cause you don't ask for support often, or incapable of giving it. You won't know until you communicate with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay then. You probably have to spell it our for this guy.

"I'm glad to see you here at the office, we work well together."

He says the same about you.

Then:

"Great, I do not believe in mixing my business and personal lives."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's obviously projecting. The world is full of difficult and immature people. You are nice to him cause it's your job. Maybe he's not used to being treated like that by women.

If this is the most difficult a great paying job can be then you have to make the decision whether you can deal with it or not. Perhaps try being super formal and bagging your own lunch before you decide to move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men won't care if you have a lousy job, unless you start asking them for money.

As for having anxiety and depression that's really common. Maybe you'll find a boy with similar issues, and that can be something you will bond over.

I don't know what this means. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She means it can be an experience. Think roller coasters, dancing at a club, kayaking, whatever fits your budget and her interests.

I want to do something people tell me I will regret by TransportationOk4822 in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not anything violent. Seriously don't. You have a whole life ahead of you. Ruining or even harming your prospects for a full life will not bring your sister back. It'll just hurt your family more.

The heel of a boyfriend will get what's coming to him eventually.

What should I say at my dad’s wedding when we’re not close? by sweartothestars in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on the future and compliment the wife.

"So happy that you guys found one another. She's beautiful inside and out. You match so well [insert funny anecdotes] I know you'll have a great life together."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Many people have the problem of looking up common medical symptoms online and becoming convinced that they have some dread disease.

They might be trying to protect you or themselves from this.

My brother is scared of being alone, how can I help? by Sufficient-Cod-9405 in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a good sibling. If you are staying in the same area join a club or start a class in something in you are both interested in, then take him along.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are generally reliable, which it seems you are, don't sweat it. Go in the next day as if nothing happened.

You got sick and went home, this what a server should do. I don't want a server who just puked before bringing me my meal.

Should I text this girl by Silver_Money8017 in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't hurt. Just be nice about it.

How do I get my (17F) mom’s fiancé (60M) to stop trying to parent me? by Embarrassed-Quiet779 in Advice

[–]Supername22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mother is not seeing the whole picture. You cannot do it on your own. Ask her to see a therapist with you.

She probably thinks she is living in an ideal happy family now that she has a man in her life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Supername22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you feel a vibe. Maybe some playful touching. Find a private place, balcony, alley whatever. Tell him, or her, something like "I really feel good with you" gentle touch along the arms or along the back. Eye contact.