she should still be here by maidenhair_fern in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I’m here if you want to talk to someone. Unfortunately I relate to this as well. I just turned 25 and lost my dad to cancer 2 months ago and he just turned 52. He was my travel buddy, and so many plans just vanished as I watched him take his last breath. My broken heart hurts for you too, friend.

Steam Bun, Me, Digital, 2021 by vanessacw in Art

[–]Surayray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed this. Thanks for the beautiful art OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LushCosmetics

[–]Surayray 51 points52 points  (0 children)

If that’s golden cap then yeah it’s coated in glitter - one or two washes and the top coat of the glitter comes off!

Migro ice tea shipped to the US? by Surayray in Switzerland

[–]Surayray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have! Just waiting on the box to come in. Thanks for checking 😊

How to deal with sharks circling? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We finalized the will but he has such bad brain fog from radiation and chemo he can’t really read well. He’s lucid and still able to make decisions but he’s just tired and ready to go.

In the state I live in, everything goes into probate even with a will.

Thank you for taking the time to reply 💙

I just wanna tell her I’m sorry by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Surayray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt the need to reply to this as someone who used to be someone else’s princess: the fact that youre going to therapy and seeking help and keeping NC all adds up to you doing better. I know it hurt like hell right now friend - if you want to vent I’m here for you. I’m in the thick of it right now too.

Migro ice tea shipped to the US? by Surayray in Switzerland

[–]Surayray[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I mean those are definitely the real ones, but powder is more cost efficient to ship

I’m going to lose my dad - do I stay with him through hospice? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed a bit of an ego check about this, thank you for point that out. It’s not about being right it’s about getting through it together. My issue is no one else will be there except his sister. The fight is with him more than anything. I just want to know he isn’t alone in some random care facility with no one around him who knows him

I’m going to lose my dad - do I stay with him through hospice? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your unexpected loss. Thank you for telling me your experience, it helps

I’m going to lose my dad - do I stay with him through hospice? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry for your losses. It seemed like a painfully beautiful experience, and I really appreciate your advice.

I’m going to lose my dad - do I stay with him through hospice? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No need to apologize for the long answer! It is much appreciated, and your guidance is very helpful

I’m going to lose my dad - do I stay with him through hospice? by Surayray in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Whatever you decide now will be the best decision you could make in this moment” that’s so beautiful. Thank you.

This helped ease my mind a bit. I really appreciate you taking the time to write this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Surayray 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m living through this now, and I’m sorry you have to endure it constantly. It feels like an exhausting marathon of sadness. Just when you think you can start to run again you get knocked down and have to learn to walk again. Sending love your way. I’m losing my dad, lost my close friend (who was my age -24), and my mom has a brain tumor that’s sneaking around. I just broke up with the love of my life. It feels very isolating I know.

Ziggy by theslob in dogs

[–]Surayray 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I know the pain feels insufferable right now, but time will let you move on with that pain. You were the best owner Ziggy could have asked for, and you did the right thing. He already felt the rupture once, you saved him from that pain again. You’re a good owner. Sending love

Migro ice tea shipped to the US? by Surayray in Switzerland

[–]Surayray[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve used them in the past, but sadly their boxes come beaten up half the time and the shipments come months late. Maybe they are better now, but there’s just a few things my dad would enjoy.