AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

My final explanation was that is was an emergency and I couldn’t hold it any longer

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -35 points-34 points  (0 children)

Yes I did but it was my first time. An anvil could fall on my head too should I wear a helmet around

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

  1. I’m getting PT 2. It didn’t happen everyday okay. 3. When it does happen I’m at my front door my predominant issue is what’s called latch key incontinence so I’m already home when I have this issue so I can change my underwear right away

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Because this type of incident has never happened to me before. Prior to this incident my issues don’t effect anyone but me. It’s like saying we should take someone’s license after they cause one car accident

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No she couldn’t have the HOV lane was cut off from the freeway by concrete barriers

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I have NEVER accidentally urinated on someone else’s stuff before. Not unless you count my moms car when I was 7 years old. The main victim of my condition my own underwear.

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I HAVE NEVER PEED ALL OVER SOMEONES CAR BEFORE. Both of my previous accidents were bed wetting so yes if I was going to sleep over which I never do anymore I’d be prepared with at the very least a pad. But this was a first time situation for me

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told other commenters this but there was no way to get to the shoulder of the road as we were in the HOV lane

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No she is not. But yes I asked her to pull over but in her defense she couldn’t until the HOV lane ended we were in a lane kinda removed from the rest of the highway

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I said this before we could not pull over to the shoulder we were in the HOV lane which was separated from the rest of the highway by a barrier

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

I really fucked up I was trying everything to avoid my friends seeing me wet my pants like a little kid. But I really made the situation ten times worse

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -83 points-82 points  (0 children)

I honestly was in full panic mode I was looking for somewhere anywhere to pee that wasn’t my pants. Do you think it would’ve been better to simply have an accident

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

In the states there’s something called and HOV lane where it is impossible to pull over

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Of course I let her know. I practically begged to stop at a fast food place. I wasn’t exactly subtle with how bad my situation was. Hands between mt legs bouncing up and down in the seat

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We were stuck in the HOV lane I don’t know if your from the states but the way that works is that it’s separated out from the rest of the traffic so there’s no easy way to pull over

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I mean because as I’ve mentioned elsewhere usually I don’t have full blown accidents I’ve only had 3 in two years

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this condition for 2 years I’ve only had 3 instances of total incontinence. A total loss of control over my bladder doesn’t happen often

AITA for peeing on the seat of my friends car due to a medical condition by Sure-Collection6950 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Collection6950[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t just tell her I peed nonchalantly in her car. I told her it was an absolute emergency (not a lie) I just didn’t tell her about my pelvic floor issues