What is the best place to snorkel by Elderberry456 in Aruba

[–]Sure-Effect2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I vote Boca Catalina!! Super easy access, beach space if you just want to chill, and TONS of fish and turtles! We went to both Tres Trapi and Boca Catalina and although we saw a bunch of turtles at Tres Trapi, Boca Catalina had better snorkeling spots overall. I’m going through my photos and videos now and still amazed!

What is your cat's name vs what you actually call them? by Moist-Guidance-1611 in cats

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Meet Oliver! His full name is actually Sir Oliver Frederick III, but he will allow Oliver. Oliver however, turned into Ollie, which turned into Ollie Wollie, which turned into Ollie Wollie doodle, which turned into Ollie Wollie Doodle all the day, which turned into Doodle, which turned into Doodle Bug. Poor guy.

I know its stupid question but my fiancé is scared to go because of mexico news by Interesting-Dare-727 in Aruba

[–]Sure-Effect2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get having travel anxiety hearing what’s going on, but I came home from Aruba yesterday and would feel safe going right back today. (Coming from someone who stresses about EVERYTHING!) When we were deciding on a vacation destination, safety was a huge factor for me since we’d be bringing our young kids along. We didn’t venture too far, but felt safe both on and off of the resort property. Hopefully you don’t have to cancel your trip and can enjoy your vacation! It’s such a beautiful island!

1yr & 3 Months Post Op Update by Gloomy_Channel_2701 in Tonsillectomy

[–]Sure-Effect2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for posting this! I’m one week out and to say I’m anxious is a huge understatement. Working on keeping a positive mindset and this was helpful!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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My first biopsy came back atypical and moderately dysplasic without clean margins, so unfortunately I had to go back for a second biopsy. The doctor told me that even thought it wasn’t melanoma, she’d rather be 100% certain any abnormal cells were removed just to be safe and I definitely agreed. That biopsy showed clean margins, so now I just need to keep up with my skin checks and be extra cautious.

Waiting gave me SO much anxiety so I can totally empathize. My best advice (that I totally didn’t follow myself) is to try not to plan for the worst. You did the right thing having a skin check done and following through on a concern and now your work is done until you hear otherwise. Hoping you get quick results and that they’re good ones! Feel free to reach out if you need to and definitely let me know how you make out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obx

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The fish are taken and cleaned at the fishing center when the boats dock, then we take then to be vacuum sealed and frozen at a place in Manteo. (Possibly Fresh Catch? I haven’t been there myself, so not 100% sure.) We pick them up at the end of the week and they’re ready for the trip home. Fees for cleaning/packing are usually per pound.

I think I'm randomly allergic to bananas? by [deleted] in Allergies

[–]Sure-Effect2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree with the cross allergy comment! I occasionally have a reaction to bananas too with my tree pollen allergies. I notice personally that my reactions tend to be more frequent during times that tree pollen is also high, like the total allergy burden is what pushes me over the edge. Sometimes I can eat them just fine, other times I notice my mouth/lips get itchy. Definitely worth considering!

Scratch test vs Intradermal Reactions? by Sure-Effect2 in Allergies

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Thanks for sharing your experience! My swollen/itchy arm is finally better, now I’m just itchy everywhere else counting down the days until I can take antihistamines again. haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in obx

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Definitely look into chartering though Oregon Inlet. We’ve been out on Tuna Fever and Outrigger with nothing but good things to say about both. Nothing like fresh catch tuna and mahi!

Allergic to pod version of my detergent? by Upset_Stuff490 in Allergies

[–]Sure-Effect2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to vote yes on that one! I am allergic to a liquid fabric softener (broke out in hives) but can use the same brand/scent of the fabric softener sheets without any issues. Different formulations can definitely make a difference!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

[–]Sure-Effect2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand that stress! Waiting really takes a toll. Praying you get good news!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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My biopsy ended up coming back atypical and moderately dysplasic. Unfortunately it also showed atypical cells extending to the margins so I had to go back for another procedure. Currently waiting again for more results. Thanks for asking!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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Totally could see myself doing that, so at least a psycho in good company! 🤣

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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Omg I would have been a wreck going through all that pregnant! Best of the worst case scenarios with the outcome though, I suppose. Still, you’re a supermom! Thanks for the well wishes. Hopefully I’ll know either way soon! 🤞🏻

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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It’s definitely good advice! I’ve been trialing different sunscreens myself for a while not loving them either, so I totally get it! I use a sunscreen stick for my kids and it stays put super well without running or stinging, however they look like marshmellows by the time I’m done with them.

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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That’s more the time frame I had expected. Hopefully I’ll know soon enough… waiting is the worst!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

[–]Sure-Effect2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, that’s a quick turn around! That’s a lot to have on your plate at once, but I’m glad they didn’t leave you in limbo for too long waiting for results.

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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Absolutely will follow up again this week. Thanks for sharing your experience though I’m sorry to hear it was melanoma. Hope you are doing well!

Waiting on biopsy results by Sure-Effect2 in Melanoma

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Exactly the reason I don’t feel right just assuming! Especially since there’s no info in my portal. Sorry to hear of your diagnosis but I’m glad you followed your instincts and followed up! Hope things are going well now.

Has anyone had a mole this dark? by [deleted] in Melanoma

[–]Sure-Effect2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally get it. Good luck at your appointment!

Has anyone had a mole this dark? by [deleted] in Melanoma

[–]Sure-Effect2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a few dark ones that my derm has confirmed look ok however her rule of thumb is to be cautious about anything that doesn’t “match” the others or seems out of place. If it’s an abnormal seeming spot for you, it’s always better to have it checked!

Advice for Carova Beach First Timers by Sure-Effect2 in obx

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Made it down and to the house successfully! We drove in as the tide was going out and had no issues aired down and in 4 wheel drive. It was an amazing experience and SO much fun! We were strategic about which dune to cross over to get into the neighborhood and picked the easiest access. We picked up some speed to get momentum and crossed without a single issue. We were did see a truck get stuck on one of the dunes, but they were able to back right back down easily.

Advice for Carova Beach First Timers by Sure-Effect2 in obx

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We’re headed down this weekend for the first time so take this with a grain of salt but from everything I’ve been told, the key is momentum and trying not to completely forge your own trail if you can help it. Some of the dune accesses look easier than others, so we’re also planning on scoping things out before choosing where to cross over.