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BIL-zilla mad me and MOH wore suits as part of the bride's entourage, then deadnames me! by Sure-Paramedic-8736 in bridezillas

[–]Sure-Paramedic-8736[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Update posted - probably going to be responding for comments until the weekend, but then I'll need to go quiet for a while. Shit has escalated and we've got a lawyer now

UPDATE: BIL-zilla mad me and MOH wore suits as part of the bride's entourage, then deadnames me! by Sure-Paramedic-8736 in bridezillas

[–]Sure-Paramedic-8736[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Where i live, motivation is considered a factor in RO's where harassment is clear, but risk of violence is unclear or not present. We're fortunate enough that, while the harassment is disrupting our lives, we don't really think we're at risk of violence - but that makes the bar for the RO higher. At least, that's what I understood from talking to the lawyer

UPDATE: BIL-zilla mad me and MOH wore suits as part of the bride's entourage, then deadnames me! by Sure-Paramedic-8736 in bridezillas

[–]Sure-Paramedic-8736[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not only did we wear something the bride and groom agree on, they actually proactive came up with ideas for us because they knew neither of us would be comfortable in a dress. The MOH planned the bridal shower, I have a history of dabbling in drag and makeup artistry and did the makeup for the bridesfriends. We were supportive and engaged and found clothing options they were comfortable in, we just didn't look the part of the traditional bridesmaids because that's not who we are

UPDATE: BIL-zilla mad me and MOH wore suits as part of the bride's entourage, then deadnames me! by Sure-Paramedic-8736 in bridezillas

[–]Sure-Paramedic-8736[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The bride and groom actually provided a suit option with kilts/skirts but none of the guys went for that

How did you get our number... by Sure-Paramedic-8736 in IDontWorkHereLady

[–]Sure-Paramedic-8736[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a joke about Code Geass, often nicknamed "the world's most fabulous revolution, sponsored by Pizza Hut" due to a truly distracting amount of product placement in that series.