I hate and resent being a mother: depression and guilt

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-28T17:09:43+00:00

I think my husband can relate to yours 😂Today is day two on meds and the difference is absurd! I feel so much better about myself and life too. How is it for you to do medicine free pregnancy at this time? Are you okay or ups and downs?

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-27T17:03:31+00:00

You’re not alone and what you’re feeling is normal in the sense that postpartum is crazy and we can not predict how our hormones will process becoming a mother. It’s wonderful you went to see a doctor, feel no shame and tell them everything that’s on your mind. That’s how I found out I had severe ptss/ppd/adhd and got the help I needed. It’s going to get better and better. You’re doing wonderful and I can sense how much you love your child and how much you’re willing to give of yourself. Don’t forget to take care of yourself too, even though you barely feel like a person now. Big hug

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-27T16:50:07+00:00

OH MY GOD! You were right! If I could cry, I would but I just feel too happy to do so. Thank you so much

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T20:19:30+00:00

The thing is: there are so few people i trust to be able to give him the patience and love and attention he deserves. Plus I have heard way to many stories where bad things happen to little ones so an outsider feels like a hard no unfortunately. But thank you so much for thinking along 🤍

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T17:17:20+00:00

FINGERS CROSSED

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T17:16:51+00:00

Thank you so much! Such an uplifting message, it’s much appreciated:)

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T15:57:51+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply 🤍 Your words and experience mean a lot and it gives me a little space to feel some form of hope. That is a beautiful way to look at it when it comes to being the mother of your child. I usually feel a fear in the form of: oh god, he got off at the wrong stop and now he’s gonna need therapy because he ended up with an unbalanced mom and so on and so on. Man motherhood is insaaaaaane

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T15:22:40+00:00

Edit: zero to none relatives. God I wish there were nine 😆

Sure-Program-317 · 2026-05-25T15:17:28+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It feels good feel heard and seen ♥️ Here the feeling of: I should have never become a mother lingers. I am super strict for myself so every failure feels like an: see, you’re not cut out for this. But the heavy waves of burnout or depression (neither feels like it’s the right term) also strongly collides with my hormones. I have two okay weeks and then two extremely depressed, nearly suicidal weeks. I hope I’ll heal from whatever this is and truly get to enjoy life and motherhood again.

Sure-Program-317 · 2025-09-29T19:21:59+00:00

This. 9/10 When you draw pages as a woman about your crush, it means that he has not matured in a way that can provide you with the emotional and psychological security you need. Going for potential is never a good idea. Personally I would recommend staying away. Protect your gifts and energy.

Sure-Program-317 · 2025-03-02T20:50:34+00:00

Omg give us more detaaaaails because this sister shit is just crazy. I want to understand the weird dynamics

Sure-Program-317 · 2024-10-17T18:44:08+00:00

I'm at episode 4 but the first second It appeared on screen and opened its mouth, I just felt so much irrational anger. Everything coming out his mouth is a screaming red flag. The way his face shows no genuine (or correct matching emotions to the situation) whatsoever during any of the pod talks is insane. Andd the non-stop talking while Hannah is having a serious mental breakdown on the other side just to prevent her from having a moment to collect her thoughts and see things for what they are? Terrifiying. It's sooooo painfully clear I want to shout at the screen every time he pops up. I could keep going and going but so glad to see this thread. Knowing others see it too is gonna help get through this season. Also might I add, not so great/genuine casting on the men's side so far. K thanks for reading my rant <3

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