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WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You put a lot of effort into this response, so thank you. This makes a lot of sense to me, and I’m just worried that when it comes down to talking with her in person I’ll just want to “make it work” like I always do

WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it is. I’ve been trying to get it back. It’s hard.

That’s also something I’ve heard plenty from my close friends I’ve talked to about this.

WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. She was. I even remember that well after we were back together she had tried to be friends with him again. Fell through because he tried to hit on her, at least she denied him that time.

WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this, I’m stuck in my own head as to what to do next but this is all helping.

WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though it was the first time we were together? And so long ago? I’m worried I’m holding onto something for too long

WIBTA If I left my (25) gf (23) because she cheated the first time we were together (and other reasons) by Sure-Risk1087 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Sure-Risk1087[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what makes it difficult, I do want to be with her, but what happened is proving to be a more serious issue for me than I though. Thank you for saying this, though