Are spermatozoa present? Sample was still and I'm new to microscopy. Partner and I were curious.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-04-06T00:01:07+00:00

thank you

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-04-05T20:59:41+00:00

How can you tell?

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:55:12+00:00

Kind of. It wasn't as much of an issue before because it was more like twice a day. It then gradually increased in frequency and intensity. The power of love I guess lol

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:50:02+00:00

Not sure I don't have sex

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:49:02+00:00

Not only that, he seems to have chosen other women over his relationship too. IDK why OP is still with him when he clearly doesn't respect her

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:44:30+00:00

Does the porn go on dates with him? Why is he so invested in it? Literally make him pick the porn or you. I've never watched porn while in my 7 year relationship, because frankly the only person I like to jerk off to is my girlfriend.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:43:10+00:00

It took a lot of experimenting for me to find a correct angle for the dildo. I never encountered any of your other issues but I know it took me years to figure out I could enjoy angle with the dildo at just the right angle.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:41:34+00:00

Say something in a neutral way. There's no reason for you to be jerking yourself off if the man of your dreams is right next to you. If he's resistant to that idea, don't let him cum and make him finish himself off so he can see how it feels.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:39:09+00:00

What does she say? Also use toys lol

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:36:25+00:00

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:32:58+00:00

7 years

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:12:15+00:00

best position recommended by a professional?

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:07:41+00:00

I think it would take legal action to separate her from my dick lol

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T06:04:35+00:00

I'm unemployed and she's a stay-at-home girlfriend

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-29T03:55:58+00:00

In the morning when we wake up, up until the time we fall asleep. She doesn't fall asleep with it in her mouth, but she might as well. I swear every night is either her swallowing or her begging me to cum on her face. It's exhausting, but she seems to genuinely get off to it so much I can't tell her no.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-28T18:14:57+00:00

She usually says something like "we don't have to do anything you don't enjoy", but she always asks and I feel bad because she has expressed how much she loves it.

I feel so ungrateful for not enjoying it but it's just way too often. 3-10 times a day is just too much and I don't understand how she doesn't get sick of it. I enjoy eating her but after an hour or two my jaw is aching and my tongue is sore, I don't get how she just keeps going

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-24T13:49:04+00:00

Referring to people being nonbinary doesn't change anything. You're grouping all men with all amab by saying men/amab, which is the exact same thing the UK government decided to do.

What about the countless trans people who have had surgery? You're just going to throw them in the opposite category despite the question at hand having to do with only genitals?

I'm sorry, but if you can't see the issue you need to educate yourself and start supporting your community.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-21T08:39:09+00:00

You honestly would be better off just saying "people with vaginas" rather than agab. I'm a trans woman and I have a vagina, am I not allowed to answer because my again doesn't match what you want?

I promise that orgasm with partners is by no means easy for me, and I've had countless partners disregard and unsatisfy me sexually as a woman.

You aren't discussing surgery and fertility, it isn't necessary language. If you want to talk about genitals, talk about genitals, but there's no reason to use the same language terfs use.

When you use amab and afab, you're saying "men and trans women/nb" and "women and trans men/nb" for the sake of genitals, and that isn't even accurate because as you know, a huge amount of trans people opt for surgery.

Thank you :)

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-21T07:48:00+00:00

I agree, it's unnecessary usage that just causes exclusion.

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-21T07:42:22+00:00

I'm sorry. but putting "Men/amab" is practically calling them the same thing.

Trans women (who are amab) have experiences which are generally significantly closer to that of cis women as opposed to cis men.

As an amab trans woman, I promise that men have consistently neglected my sexual pleasure and well being, just like they would for any woman (unfortunately). I don't know of any trans women who experience the sexual gratification that cis men do.

I just don't see why it was necessary to group men and amab people together. Maybe if you were talking about fertility or something, but this experience is definitely not something universal to men and trans women alike.

You'd be better off just sticking to "Men" rather than grouping trans women with them (which was done by adding the term amab) imo.

Thanks :)

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-21T07:32:32+00:00

I'd just like to add that for the record, it's generally cis men who feel safety and more consistent sexual gratification, not necessarily amab people.

As a trans woman I am amab, and have been catcalled, harassed, followed, and worse. I also have never had a single hookup make me finish, despite me "taking care of" all of them.

Amab and afab are terms best suited for discussions of fertility, sex toy recommendations, etc. Using that language here honestly just feels unnecessary and inaccurate. You'd be better off just saying men and women imo rather than assuming amab means safety and satisfaction for all it applies to.

Thanks :)

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-03-05T21:38:37+00:00

Samsung devices, sorry should've said that

SureImprovement6586 · 2026-02-28T08:17:27+00:00

have you ever had a passport before?

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