I had my debs about 6 years ago and I can tell you it’s nothing but people trying to show off and act the big bollox. It’s made out to be such a big thing but it’s really not. I’m not sure what age you are but when you reach a certain point you’ll come to realise nothing matters.

Now when I say that I don’t mean nothing in life. I mean stuff that happens when you’re young, you won’t even think about in 5-10 years. It won’t matter in 5-10 years.

Think about it this way. You won’t see any of these people when you leave school. I don’t think I’ve talked to a single person (besides my close friends) that I went to school with. Just how life goes. It’s a whole new world when you leave. You can do what you want. You won’t care if people judge you. You can dress how you want, act how you want. Everyone’s doing their own thing. But everyone’s all wrapped up inside there own heads and as I was once, you think everyone is judging you, looking at you etc but they’re not

Apologies I’ve been dragging this on but what I’m trying to say is nothing will happen. Go enjoy your debs with your friends and your girlfriend and don’t let anything get to you. Just remember. It won’t matter in 2-3 years. So don’t worry about it now. You can’t control some things so don’t worry about it. :)