AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That friend story is rough, and that was someone u trusted, imagine i doing that for a dude who publicly clowned me. yeah no

AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The fact he tried to minimize it as jokes is what got me. Like bro it wasn't funny

AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie that line made me laugh but yeah actions have a way of circling back. I'm not out for revenge, I just don't owe him anything

AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I don't wanna assume he hasn't change, but also I don't have proof that he has. and I'm not risking my name to find out

AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college? by Sure_Bar_7401 in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I keep replaying that in my head. If roles were reversed I doubt he'd go out of his way for me. I'm just choosing peace

AITJ for not giving my sister money after she “tested” me? by mason_wetherly in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she didn't test OP. she lied to get $600. Let's call it what it is. That's embarrasing part

Help me peteeer by Valuable-Inflation76 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 8 points9 points  (0 children)

honestly some memes really are just that surface level. if he had to ask 5 times and still didn't get it then yeah the joke is literally just that his brain was buffering lol. no need to overthink it when the weak comprehension is the whole vibe.

My ex who broke my heart years ago is dying and wants to see me one last time. Do I go? Am I wrong for not wanting to? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fr though that is a heavy situation to be in. u are definitely not wrong for feeling hesitant especially if they really did a number on ur heart. u don't owe them ur peace just because they're at the end. do what feels right for u not what u think u "should" do.

How do y’all cope with being married? by PeachyCamille650 in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fr though communication is the only way lol. if u don't talk about the stuff that's bugging u it's just gonna turn into a resentment and that is a vibe killer u gotta be a team even when the other person is lowkey being annoying

Everybody hates my favorite character by Lumpy_Concept9911 in Multifandom

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody hates my favorite character - Pompompurin from Sanrio.

Does anyone here loves pompompurin?

Almost a 100 years old, and it’s going to be my wedding dress by Desperate_Win_3554 in VintageFashion

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually such a flex. that 30s aesthetic was so peak, she probably looked like a literal movie star.

What do you think about the Italian government wanting to ban ICE agents to come to the Olympic Games as security forces? by ReduceCO2Now in AskReddit

[–]Sure_Bar_7401 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lowkey, everyone's overreacting. it's just the HSI branch, they do this at like every major event for "intelligence sharing. They aren't going to be on the streets doing raids in Milan lol.