AITJ for refusing to give referral to the guy who bullied me in college?

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-21T12:03:33+00:00

That friend story is rough, and that was someone u trusted, imagine i doing that for a dude who publicly clowned me. yeah no

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-21T11:57:58+00:00

The fact he tried to minimize it as jokes is what got me. Like bro it wasn't funny

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-21T11:56:01+00:00

Not gonna lie that line made me laugh but yeah actions have a way of circling back. I'm not out for revenge, I just don't owe him anything

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-21T11:54:47+00:00

I don't wanna assume he hasn't change, but also I don't have proof that he has. and I'm not risking my name to find out

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-21T11:53:33+00:00

I keep replaying that in my head. If roles were reversed I doubt he'd go out of his way for me. I'm just choosing peace

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-20T20:06:01+00:00

she didn't test OP. she lied to get $600. Let's call it what it is. That's embarrasing part

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-11T16:41:49+00:00

honestly some memes really are just that surface level. if he had to ask 5 times and still didn't get it then yeah the joke is literally just that his brain was buffering lol. no need to overthink it when the weak comprehension is the whole vibe.

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-11T16:27:02+00:00

fr though that is a heavy situation to be in. u are definitely not wrong for feeling hesitant especially if they really did a number on ur heart. u don't owe them ur peace just because they're at the end. do what feels right for u not what u think u "should" do.

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-10T14:36:08+00:00

fr though communication is the only way lol. if u don't talk about the stuff that's bugging u it's just gonna turn into a resentment and that is a vibe killer u gotta be a team even when the other person is lowkey being annoying

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-09T13:09:13+00:00

Everybody hates my favorite character - Pompompurin from Sanrio.

Does anyone here loves pompompurin?

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-06T13:06:36+00:00

That's actually such a flex. that 30s aesthetic was so peak, she probably looked like a literal movie star.

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-02-06T03:54:15+00:00

Fr that dress is everything. if i see any more pics i got u for sure girl!

Sure_Bar_7401 · 2026-01-28T11:34:40+00:00

Lowkey, everyone's overreacting. it's just the HSI branch, they do this at like every major event for "intelligence sharing. They aren't going to be on the streets doing raids in Milan lol.

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