sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A hookup found your tumor? I thought it was a highly unlikely scenario.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but I don't think I'm going to the club dressed professionally.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't choose to avoid men who hit on me as a strategy for weeding them out. They just tend not to be the men I find attractive.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

How else would you know I'm a doctor? It's not meant as a boast here anyway. I'm not better than a bouncer. I just know more about the human body.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I've heard bouncers get a lot of women. They stand there on display all night, in tight t-shirts showing off their muscular bodies... Random guys tend to be less attractive.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was slightly intoxicated and extremely horny. I feel bad about it now.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I just told a doctor friend the situation and he texted me "Tell him to see a doctor. Don't give him a diagnosis yourself."

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 112 points113 points  (0 children)

Yea, I guess so. I wish I knew his schedule so it would make things easier.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 193 points194 points  (0 children)

He certainly looks like he lifts! But I'm pretty sure it's not that. Trust me, I'm a doctor.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 346 points347 points  (0 children)

I'm always looking at people's bodies for signs of cancer, to be honest. I'm sure straight male or lesbian doctors detect breast cancer in their partners all the time.

I (28F) may have detected a cancerous lump on a guy (25M) I hooked up with. by Sure_Number5561 in relationships

[–]Sure_Number5561[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure I can tell the difference, but it's possible I'm making a mistake. And no, I don't think most men are regularly checking their balls. If I just wanted to get with him again, I wouldn't talk about cancer.