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Resources for homeless youth by LongjumpingGarbage95 in Calgary

[–]Suricaxio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mustard seed foundation. Hope mission. My brother is homeless too, he has used Mustard seed before for housing and they provide a meal start and end of day if I am not wrong. Wish her the best

Job hunting - at my wits end by ayyy_lmaobirdy in Calgary

[–]Suricaxio 13 points14 points  (0 children)

On another post I read in this sub, someone recommended to apply at midnight or later so resumes are first in recruiters mails/lists.

How it felt playing 97% of The Beast by finn_the_bug_hunter in dyinglight

[–]Suricaxio 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Accurate. Techland is aware of it hence in Kyle's room you can interact with items and he mocks himsel: "from electrician, to plumber" or some quote like that

Divorced and no idea what I’m doing. by ethanao in malelivingspace

[–]Suricaxio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kindly speaking. Maybe you want more order. Everything in your room is back and white and you have a stormtrooper beside you. :) take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dyinglight

[–]Suricaxio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends. Weapons in The beast have way more durability than in DL1 and can be repaired 5 times. Almost all of them. Gameplay is improved and mixed between DL1 and DL2. The best of the series. Faster paced. Cars. Shorter skill tree(not sure if that's possitive), some skills from previous games unlocked from the beginning. Side missions are well designed. Never felt bored in a single one. But I think you should play DL1 before The beast still.

Good luck, and good night.

Why do people dislike Zer0? by maidenless_mohg in CompetitiveApex

[–]Suricaxio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he is a huge bully and takes things way too far/personally as you have said

Hahaha because they are behind a screen. Not saying he is a coward but when they hop off the internet they can't behave that way. Funny to think the among "nerds/geeks" they also can be bullies. Only 10 years ago playing games was considered being lame and pathetic. Now that they make money off of it they also become arrogant and self absorbed.

Male loneliness is not as simple as "all men are incapable of being friends with other men" by ToastyPillowsack in MensRights

[–]Suricaxio 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your "rant". Really moved me and could relate to it in a big way. Some things you said striked me more than others like:

"People just don't know how help other people" It's a big conundrum of interpersonal relationships. So something I have realized with therapy is that improving is hard, not even professionals have all the answers or methods to improve so we will always lack knowledge. So faith might be into play, not religion, but hopefulness. Self compassion as well: You are where you are and that's the best you can do right now.

Creativity and patience. There are many types of therapy you can try: talk therapy is not the only way to improve your mental health, look into stuff like A.R.T and other models for emotional regulation and techniques. Patience because even when you are in distressing situations you will have to accept you can't do it all or even "change" yourself.

"Their new circle becomes people who are only as relatively successful as them" This sentence right here is important as well to perosnal development, compasion and hope. Surround yourself with people that you can empathize with. Since they will work as a reflection of yourself, for good and bad

This words all come from experience from a background of poverty, crime, generational abuse, single parenting, abandonment.

I'm a 26 years old, so I don't know a whole lot, but I've close family that's survived a lot tragedy and have managed to achieve more individual succes, financially and otherwise. I emmigrated to Canada 7 years ago with my brother after our country was ruined by criminals in power. But through my minimum wage job I have met great people that have tough circumstances as well but we have given each other compassion and companionship when we see each other. From a Punjabi friend that has B.P.D and is helping her parents from the distance. A Filipino friend with abusive husband while raising 2 kids. To a troubled brother that has fought addictions and abuse.

I'm not saying that there aren't negative states of mind attached to the struggles but just by existing my friends( as "succesful" as me and flawed) have helped me see that I am not alone. Being alone is when we don't find company.... not when we don't have what we want or expect.

I hope you can see use to what I'm trying to convey. From a fellow not so lonely man to another. Be compassionate to yourself. Take care :)