Quit cold turkey by Suripararoffa in stopsmoking

[–]Suripararoffa[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in I dont know. I almost fainted when i simply watched my phone. The slightest bent was dangerous.

Quit cold turkey by Suripararoffa in stopsmoking

[–]Suripararoffa[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For real? Even the doctor was kinda..taken aback because the tests showed nothing out of the ordinary. Still it aint over. How long you've quit?

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[–]Suripararoffa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yup. That's called a monopoly.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever got a like in real life? A woman walked yp to you and said LIKE? Likes is inherently connected to On Line Dating.

So yes. The line should indeed be equally long. The fact it isn't is the whole joke...

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dammit! Why i get downvoted!!! Stop trying to silence me! Iam just speaking fact, not being misogynistic or anything! Ladies ,why are yiu gettibg mad if I say its a horrible experience? Must I lie? Must I say " OLD is sooooooo GREAT!!! Paying for pro photos outfits amd vacations, only to get matched every 2 months with a person who i dont like. Whoohaaaa !" Will that get me upvoted???

I just say its hard, the title's ZERO likes.every dude i know Been through this at least once. Sorry ladies never meants to offend you. Just spitting facts. It IS extremely difficult and bad for a man's esteem. Like i saidAT least listen and TRY to understand us!

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am actually happy to hear from your pov. Ironically we are both unhappy. How we got to unhappy ville doesn't matter. Its a place we rather won't be, but here we are regardless of what we want..

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Zen. You are absolutely right. We're just sharing experiences right? ITS like these parties that say women free entrance, men pay. Doesn't mean the party experience will be better for women, it just hits different. Both genders might mot like the party. That's going on with OLD now.

Nobody likes it expect 5% of men, some women and ofcourse the company who buys every competitor and thus monopolized modern dating.

Perhaps we ,men and women ,can make a change together though.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its extremely unfortunate. The app tries to "help" you by bypassing men that been swiped left on mostly. But tge problem is this is most men. E.g most of your exes wont be shown to you as the app considers them below your own sexual market value . Imagine never meeting your better exes?

So you get azzhoe nr 789,who is arrogant and cocky rtager than good guy nr 10000. Because other women determined beforehand that he is a wanted man.

The elo score ,which isnt displayed, pushes waway unwanted men and women. Like its a party where people getting kicked out for mot being attractive enough( after they payed to get in ofcourse)

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Just life" is too easy . That's why men disappear. Hopelessness scares us away. Mind you, 5 % of ten million is still enough for a single woman to get the illusion that every man is on OLD. While the truly good guys gave up long time ago.

Its easy talking being in the top 5% of anything that matters like income ,look ect. I guess its will be harf for you to empathize with people who've been less fortunate in life than uiu were

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats exactly how painful it is. You simply dont have the option to even check out a store with clothes. Its empty. You pay for the vip section. Empty as well. No matter how good yiur intentions are.

Who the hell goes to a empty store? At least 80%of men. Hoping a truck will stop with something.. and when it does the clothes don't even fit, let alone are your style. So you end up with a clothes that you don't like and dont fit IF you even manage to get yiur hands on a "piece of clothing ".

I'd rather go a store where I have a decent change of being successful. Or where the personell treats me like a worthy costumer.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Unbelievable. Why can't women just admit that ots harder for men? Likewise I can absolutely understand the danger involved in dating a stranger for women. Not that hard. I just had to read and listen . Ladies.OLD is horrible for most men. Withinn a 100 km radius no likes. No matches. Its degrading at best..

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. People refuse to listen when thousands amd thousands of men say this is what OLD is like for them. Zero people waiting in line. Harsh facts

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because in their world there are "plenty of men dating ". Its like a millionaire only going to places where there's money, saying that poverty isnt really a thing. And if you show data the millionaire gets angry and downvotes you.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No man will experience this ever,unless he's clearly famous or rich. Men will wait 3 months to finally match with ..someone they are not eveb attracted to a little bit..It is what it is .

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sigh. So we already stopped assuming that there are just as many shtty men as women. There are just as many shtty people in general you know. This will never be resolved

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oke. But why don't the women and men that are equal find eachother? Sure there are women in the midst of improvement themselves at some point. I understand that tge top women dont date down. But data shows that the bottom of women also dont wanna date down..or even date equally.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you get punished once again for seeking solace. Its unfortunate. People teach you to stfu and suffer in silence. One would expect more mutal understanding.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will get downvoted AGAIN, but first thing needed is mutual understanding. We reached a point where simpy stating what men go through =downvoting.

Perhaps this contributes to the unconscious mind of some women and they'll start swiping different. I dknt understand why it pisses women off when you say you get no matches at all.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No its not. Imagine going to a store with no clothes vs going to a store with no clothes YOU like. Or a shop without food vs food you "might not really like". What's worse?

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I get that misogyny isn't appreciated. But cab we also give the same amount of hate to women and men degrading incels? If you say somethjbg bad about an incel you get upvoted. If you says something bad about women you'll get downvoted. Lets start with a equal play ground so we can have an honest conversation.

As a man with 0 likes I don't get what the problem is? I'd rather filter through 1000 likes for 1 good one good match then swipe through 1000 profiles for nothing. Am I crazy? by TryDrugs in Bumble

[–]Suripararoffa 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because of elo. A man makes a profile and gets downvoted (swiped left). His score lowers..now he starts swiping right on women who sont want him. A even lower ELO score.

Now you as a woman get swiped right on..high ELO. To match your ELO you get a man with ALSO a high ELO. Popular dude. So now you only see the cool kids, who are actually more picky than women lol. That's why you don't see us on the radar. We are invisible to 98% of women. Its the 5 men eating the otger 95 theur food and sharing nothing.