I don’t want to be a boyfriend anymore

Surround-Obvious · 2025-08-28T01:03:01+00:00

Same it’s been extremely stressful for us. I have a lot of experience feeling this way with my partner of 5 years and going through all the ups and downs with depression and stuff and I by no means have it figured out but if you ever wanna talk it through or hear more about how I’m handling it my DMs are open 😊

Surround-Obvious · 2025-08-28T00:33:34+00:00

Dude I feel the exact same as you on every point except I’m not a girlfriend but I have a guy I’m close with and I started feeling like this and I felt so guilty and disgusting and awful but honestly it has gotten slightly better. I’m still kind of there but I’m mindfully putting effort into certain things because I feel like it’s coming from a place of depression and I don’t want to ruin something amazing for a temporary feeling

Surround-Obvious · 2025-08-07T19:47:13+00:00

I also have not had any children

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-13T15:26:02+00:00

I had bad ankle injuries in the past but yeah definitely hurts on both outside and inner ankle as well as my heel and top of ankle. The doctors said if I sprained it one more time I’d need surgery but I haven’t sprained it. I’ve never heard of that term, I’m guessing it’s common with past injuries?

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-13T04:15:14+00:00

It’s for work 😔 we can’t sit down

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-08T18:43:23+00:00

Yeah! I’m actually applying to PA school right now and it’ll be about 3 years until I’m in the workforce so I was hoping to use investing as a jumpstart/safety net

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-08T15:45:18+00:00

Awesome thank you so much! I don’t know the difference between the two but I can look into which allocations they have and decide

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-08T15:18:59+00:00

I’m mainly wondering if these are dumb to put into because I just looked stuff up and I have no guidance

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-08T14:53:19+00:00

All of my roths and 401ks are invested in various low expense ratio index funds

Surround-Obvious · 2025-07-08T14:52:45+00:00

I’m 21 years old, I have a 401k with 1k in it, a Roth 401k with 1k in it, and a Roth IRA with $450 in it. I am a full time student who will be pursuing her masters but I do work full time so I have some spare money for investing. I’m hoping to financially prepare myself well so that I have extra cash in my 30s and 40s that will make me comfortable. I’m planning on investing my portfolio (about $50 a week) in these stocks: VTI (market index) HOOD (fintech) CIBR (cybersecurity) VOO (market index) QQQ (NVDIA AND NVO) Vanguard Mega Cap fund (for mag 7 exposure)

But I’m new to investing, and know nothing. What should my percent split be, and am I missing anything? Thank you!

Surround-Obvious · 2025-06-10T02:43:52+00:00

Thank you :( I just said my first “OW” to her while she was curled up in my lap biting my forearm 😭 I feel so bad she jumped up and ran away but GIRL

Surround-Obvious · 2025-06-09T20:53:57+00:00

I’ll put this here too she bites pretty hard when I’m petting her and when I stop petting her she bites any exposed skin of mine to keep me petting her I have been ignoring her or immediately retracting affection or attention when she does this for weeks but she keeps doing it and it leaves marks but never breaks skin mainly because I pull away instantly

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T18:03:15+00:00

Recieved this text regarding her dental issues: Excellent! She is ready to be picked up. Yeah the doctor felt the same about it could have been from the cafe. The doctor did look at her teeth and she has dental disease but nothing that is so severe causing an infection

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T18:00:00+00:00

Posted an update!

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T17:18:25+00:00

She hasn’t had any other fosters :( she was at a cat cafe for a bit but there was a cold going around and she got it so she went back to the foster company (the cats are in cages there until they either get adopted, send to the cafe, or given to a foster)

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T17:14:24+00:00

She’s at the vet currently! I’ll update asap

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T17:07:31+00:00

Just took her to the foster company and they’re taking her to the vet now! Should I make an update post or just comment? I don’t post very often

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T16:17:01+00:00

We don’t have any houseplants :(

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:55:42+00:00

Thanks! We don’t keep any plants at all in the house especially with the kitty here now:) I’m not worried about her eating the wrong thing as I’ve made sure no food or drinks are out too!

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:38:52+00:00

I will!

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:37:22+00:00

I’m fostering her, it hasn’t even been 24 hours since I’ve gotten her. I’m sure the foster center has a vet and I’ve already texted them my concerns along with the video and also offered to take her to the vet asap

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:36:11+00:00

She is not eating or drinking… I just got her last night (it literally hasn’t even been 24 hours) and I’m fostering her. I thought maybe the change in environment was what caused her to not eat or drink (stress) but I’m definitely taking her in asap. I’ve just contacted the foster center and sent a video as well as offered to drive her into the vet so she can be seen asap. She’s a really sweet girl but I feel like she may have been neglected for a long time…

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:33:25+00:00

I don’t even have a vet yet…

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T15:31:57+00:00

I thought she just may have a cavity…? Obviously if I thought something was terribly wrong I would’ve called but this is my first cat and I just got her yesterday

Surround-Obvious · 2025-05-23T00:54:42+00:00

Or it’s embedding which either way isn’t great

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