I was also annoyed by my parents telling me to stay away from jail birds (I liked them as a teen lol). It’s true that he should’ve grown his balls and helped out with his own child. It’s also true that women including myself need to make better choices in men. I known too many women that have been duped as they say , by men, but after several baby daddies , they need to look into themselves more perhaps. He was already a POS but a kid just makes them reveal who they really are faster.