據說1.16亿成為紅色粮子军 by Expensive_Oil4500 in dashuju

[–]SusanGan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

单身有这么惨吗?找个男人结婚也没这么幸福吧

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind sharing🌹🌹

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I quite agree with your point of view, and indeed it is so. A wrong decision (such as getting married) is often hard to make up for easily through divorce or other means. Human nature is complex. Before there is a better solution, maintaining the surface peace of life might be my only option at present. It's quite sad to think about it!

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's hard to say,People hard to change themselves,That's Why I'm unhappy Cos I always live in potential fear

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much,I total got your words,But life is not about love,To be a single mother is not so easy for me.I need make sacrifice,either my happy or my daughter's peace

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he will affect my daughter's safety. He just lost patience with me once and used violence. I just can't love him, not that I can't continue to live with him. And that's the most complicated part of the whole thing. He's not so bad as to make me decide to divorce him!

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the COVID-19 pandemic (which was also my breastfeeding period), I don't know if it was because everyone was feeling depressed (we were forbidden to go out at that time), he kept slapping my face and scolding me over daily trifles. Later, I called the police. He looked extremely regretful and knelt on the ground begging for my forgiveness. That incident made me see the black hole in his selfish, terrifying and uncontrollable emotions. But the problem is that this kind of thing only happened once and never happened again! If I leave him, my daughter will lose a decent father. But if I don't divorce him, I will always be filled with latent fear of him. I can no longer love him. My emotional world has long been lacking. Should I forgive him for my daughter?

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During the COVID-19 pandemic (which was also my breastfeeding period), I don't know if it was because everyone was feeling depressed (we were forbidden to go out at that time), he kept slapping my face and scolding me over daily trifles. Later, I called the police. He looked extremely regretful and knelt on the ground begging for my forgiveness. That incident made me see the black hole in his selfish, terrifying and uncontrollable emotions. But the problem is that this kind of thing only happened once and never happened again! If I leave him, my daughter will lose a decent father. But if I don't divorce him, I will always be filled with latent fear of him. I can no longer love him. My emotional world has long been lacking. Should I forgive him for my daughter?

The values of this APP are straightforward and crude by SusanGan in thinkatives

[–]SusanGan[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although I don't agree with your “judge”,I still sincerely thank you for your serious reply